TMI Tuesday: Self-Care

Red statue of a woman doing a yoga pose.

By j.e.mcgowan from Titirangi, Auckland (Yoga) [CC BY 2.0], via Wikimedia Commons

Outside of regular hygiene activities–bathing, brushing teeth, hair care, let’s talk about what you do for self-care*.

1. Have you ever had a professional massage? If yes, what type? If no, why not?
Yes, and it was fucking amazing! I won one at a home show, and it was 60 minutes of absolute, all-over massage, bliss.

2. Do you engage in the following? Tell us all that apply and how often you do it?
a. yoga
I’ve never tried it, but I think it would be fun.
b. tai chi
I took a class a few summers ago, and I loved it – I really need to get back into it.
c. float therapy
I’ve never heard of it.
d. run/jog
I walk, but I don’t do the running or jogging thing.
e. workout–any that isn’t actually training for something but is for physical fitness maintenance
Four days a week I lift for 45 minutes or so, and 6 days a week I ride a bike for about an hour.
f. other – what?
Hmmm…swimming – as often as I can. Does masturbation count here? I do that…a lot.

3. How many hours of sleep do you average on a weeknight? Weekend?? Do you think you need more or less sleep?
I sleep about 5 1/2 to 6 hours during the week, and probably 8 on the weekends. I really need lots more sleep!

4. Which of the following are you most likely to add to your self-care routine and stick with it??
a. Schedule in a planner daily “me time”?
b. Acupuncture
?c. Take a moment at the end of each day and consciously list a few good things in your life.?
d. Turn off phone and step away from computer/tablet for 4 hours a day
Hmmm…I would love to add b, as I really want to try acupuncture. C is also likely, as it seems like a really good idea. I never have enough time to actively schedule “me time”, and I don’t think I can go away from the phone or computer for 4 hours a day.

5. What do you do for self-care either physically, spiritually or emotionally?
I try to meditate, although I’m not very good at it, but a dark room and deep, slow breathing often help when I’m stressed.

Bonus: Today, make sure you give yourself some love–self-care.
Absolutely!

 

*Self-care is activities and practices that you do on a regular basis to reduce stress and maintain and enhance our short- and longer-term health and well-being. Source: buffalo.edu

 

 

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Wicked Wednesday: Telephone

Naked man in a telephone booth.

By Busoul (Own work) [CC BY-SA 3.0], via Wikimedia Commons

Call me
Anytime
Anywhere

Just to say you love me
And you’re thinking about me
As I am thinking about you
And wanting you.

Talk dirty to me
And make me cum with your voice.

 

 

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TMI Tuesday: Create A Story

Emil Orlík [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

I’d fuck Albert Einstein for his mind. I imagine we’d be sitting on the sofa, when he’d get an idea and his eyes would light up. He’d whisper sweet formulas in my ear, making me wet, and then he’d chase me down the hall and into the kitchen, both of us laughing and horny. With a mischievous twinkle in his eye, he’d grab the eggbeater and some olive oil and motion me to follow him. He wouldn’t be dragging me kicking and screaming – I’d be passionately curious to see what he was up to! We’d head to the bedroom, where I’d grab eight towels out of the closet to cover the bed. I’d marvel at his creativity and his tongue’s dexterity before we fucked each other silly, our bodies covered with oil, while the rain fell heavily outside. Lightning would light up our lovemaking, and the rolling thunder would sound like applause. As we came together, I’d finally understand how our mass and energy was related, and as I screamed he’d yell out “E = mc2!!” before we’d collapse in each other’s arms.

Relativity, indeed.

 

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Wicked Wednesday: Memory Lane

Artwork depicting a woman having anal sex with a man.

Édouard-Henri Avril [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

I sometimes like to reminisce of what’s gone on before,
To think back on the good and not the bad.
But always looking backwards doesn’t do me any good,
I can’t change what I have and haven’t had.

I’d rather start anew with you, with nothing on our slate
And write our story fresh and unrestrained.
We could begin at any point and journey to the end,
Our words criss-crossing, never feeling strained.

I don’t think that our time is short but we must make a play
Leave fear behind and grasp what could be ours.
Sometimes my love for you hurts so much I cry out in pain
I want to feel the comfort of your arms.

I want to fuck you senseless and see deep into your soul,
And show you that there’s nothing left to hide,
To give myself to you without reserve or second thoughts,
I want to feel you naked at my side.

We can create a memory to last ’til our last breaths,
One that we strengthen each and every day.
I could not love you more and want to spend my time with you,
There’s nothing more that I can do or say.

 

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TMI Tuesday: Let’s Do This Thing

Illustration des Diaboliques de Jules Barbey d'Aurevilly (1808-1889)

Félicien Rops [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

1. What do you think about when you’re alone in your car?
Oh, all kinds of things, really. But most often I am singing to something on the radio.

2. What advice do you have for your previous lover?
Hmmm…I guess slow down and really listen.

3. What  inspires you?
A lot of things inspire me. Seeing acts of kindness and love do the most, I think.

4. If you were to get rid of one person in your life, who would it be and why?
There’s no one who’s heavily in my life that I would want to get rid of – all of them are vitally important to me.

5. How do you cope when your level of sexual desire doesn’t match your partners?
Did I ever mention I used to review sex toys, and I have quite the collection for when my desire is in overdrive? Masturbation is a great way to cope.

Bonus:  Are you single, why? Are you married, why?
I’m married – why not? Marriage can be a very good thing.

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