Wicked Wednesday: Turn Around & Start Again




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TMI Tuesday: It’s Gonna Take A Lotta Love to Make This Work Out Right

By Trailer screenshot (Casablanca trailer) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

By Trailer screenshot (Casablanca trailer) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

1. When sizing up (assessing) your romantic relationship, is there a couple that you envy? Why? (Can be a couple you know or famous/celebrity couple)
Hmmm…I don’t know about envy, but I do admire Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell. They’ve been together for a very long time, and seem as into each other as ever.

2. Thinking of your current relationship, which stage are you in??
a. Infatuation stage – Intense attraction and an uncontrollable urge to be with each other, strong sexual attraction.?
b. Understanding stage – You both start getting to know each other better, and everything about your partner interests and fascinates you.
c. Moulding stage – You each know what you want in a partner and you start moulding each other to change in effort to create a stronger, lasting relationship.?
d. If you have made it this far you are in the advanced stages of a relationship, which one best represents the current status of your relationship:
     1) Stage of doubt – This is not what you want in a partner, and you have thoughts of ending the relationship.
     2) Happy stage – You’ve worked out most of the kinks in your relationship, you know each others flaws and can deal with them. You are comfortable and enjoying the relationship in what you believe will be a long-lasting one.
Well, if I didn’t get too confused, I’ll go with c, and 2.

3. If you are not currently in a romantic relationship, at which stage did your last relationship end? (see stages above).
Not applicable to me.

4. Do you think you are too good for your current partner? Why do you feel this way?
No. I think if that’s the case, the relationship should end.

5. Write a 25-word love note to your current significant other or to a person with whom you are infatuated .
I want you, I need you, I desire you, and I love you more than you know. Champagne and strawberries under the stars, then sex?

Bonus: Have you ever been obsessively “in love” with someone and perhaps borderline clingy? How did you get over your obsession?
Obsessed, maybe, but not borderline clingy. I would say I never got over it.



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Squeeze For A Cause

Last month, Cal Exotics announced Inspire, a new line of products created to support Living Beyond Breast Cancer, a non-profit organization. Proceeds from the Inspire line are being donated to support this group, and products in the Inspire line include wands, teasers, a dilator kit, breast massager, and kegel exercisers. In addition to the Vibrating Ultimate Wand, which I reviewed recently, I also received the Vibrating Remote Kegel Exerciser for free to review.  Why exercise your kegels? Doing kegel exercises strengthens pelvic control, and they’re easy to do. They’re fun to do, too, with an exerciser.

kegelinboxThe Vibrating Remote Kegel Exerciser from Cal Exotics comes in a clear plastic box, with the toy and remote both visible. The box sits inside a cardboard bottom box, which has product information on the sides and back. Inside the box are the egg with retrieval cord, its remote, a USB charging cord, R&TTE (European compliance) statement card, general instructions for Cal Exotics’ toys, and instructions for this toy’s use.

kegeloutofboxLike all products in the Inspire line, the Kegel Exerciser is a pretty, pale bubblegum pink. The insertable exerciser is covered with s smooth, soft silicone, and is waterproof, while the remote is ABS plastic with a PU cote.

kegelinhandThe egg-shaped exerciser is about 7 1/2” long overall, including the cord (the body is about 3” long). The cord is silicone, and part of the body, so it’s easier to clean than other insertables. It’s somewhat stretchy, and easy to remove the exerciser with.

The egg itself is about 1 1/2” in diameter. The silicone has some give, and the tip of the toy is tapered, and also squishy. It’s very easy to insert (you’ll want to use a bit of water-based lubricant), and stays in place where you put it. It has a button towards the lower half of the egg, which must pressed to turn the exerciser on – not vibrating, but ready to receive signals from the remote.  It can also be inserted and used without any vibration, or you can set the vibration speed without the remote by pressing and holding the button for 2 seconds, then pressing it to cycle through the functions (pressing for 2 seconds will turn it off). The exerciser is rechargeable, and the charging port is on the opposite side of the egg.

remoteinhandThe remote is about 3” long and 1 1/2” wide, and it’s small and easy to hold. One of the coolest things about the remote is that it is rechargeable too! If there’s one thing I find annoying with remote-controlled toys, it’s that that remotes usually take an odd-sized battery, and it always dies at an inopportune time. The charging port is on the end, and the USB charging cable provided has 2 jacks, so both the remote and exerciser can be charged at the same time. This is awesome!  It takes about 2 1/2 hours for a full charge, and then the exerciser will run for 30 minutes on high, and 1 1/2 hours on low.

The remote has 3 buttons on the front to control the exerciser. Once you’ve pressed the button on the egg and inserted it, you can turn it on by pressing the middle button and holding it for 2 seconds. The top and bottom buttons will cycle through the patterns – there are 10 in all, including steady vibration, pulsing patterns, and escalations – either forwards or backwards. This is great, as you can easily go back to the pattern you like if you pass it without having to go through all of them. You can increase the vibration speed by pressing and holding the top button (on the opposite end of the charging port), and decrease it by pressing and holding the bottom button. You can turn off the exerciser by pressing the middle button for 2 seconds. The remote has a range of about 16 feet.

kegelcharge2The vibrations are moderately strong and more on the buzzy side. They’re very quiet, so you can use the exerciser pretty much anywhere with no one being the wiser.

This is easy to clean (warm water and antibacterial soap, or a toy cleaner), and also easy to store – it’s best to store in a toybag with the remote and charging cord.

So, Did It Work? This is a fun exerciser! I love vibrating eggs, and this one is quiet, decently strong, makes me want to squeeze my kegels, and has a great variety of functions. I like that the retrieval cord is part of the egg and silicone. The remote buttons are pretty cool – being able to cycle back and forth makes it easier to find the pattern I want to use. And what I really love is that the remote is rechargeable – and can be charged with the exerciser. No more digging for N or watch batteries when the remote dies.

Thank you to Cal Exotics for sending me the Vibrating Remote Kegel Exerciser to review! If you want to try a kegel exerciser, this is a great one to pick up. You can get yours at Good Vibrations  by clicking the widget below.

This product was provided to me for free in exchange for an honest review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

Wicked Wednesday: View

By NASA/JPL-Caltech/2MASS/B. Whitney (SSI/University of Wisconsin) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

By NASA/JPL-Caltech/2MASS/B. Whitney (SSI/University of Wisconsin) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

The most amazing view that I have seen
Is outside in the darkness of the night.
Away from town I’ve found myself between
The heavens and the land – it’s such a sight.

No light pollution to disrupt the view,
I lie upon a blanket on the sand.
The stars above me number quite a few,
I lose myself, the cosmos is so grand.

I stare into the present and the past,
I find the constellations that I know.
I wonder at the space so dark and vast,
And what might lurk within this wide tableau.

I squeeze your hand, for I am not alone,
But here with you below the starry sky.
You are my love, my life, my cornerstone,
A tear of happiness falls from my eye.

We share this moment, then we turn to kiss.
To love on earth beneath the stars and moon.
Our energy is strong, and filled with bliss,
We let our bodies and our souls attune.

This is the view I want, of you: your face,
The love and the desire deep in your eyes.
And shining in the starlight’s cold embrace,
The melding of our hearts, our minds, our cries.

I want you and I’ll never let you go,
I love you even more than you can know.


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TMI Tuesday: Sexy Thoughts

Frank Dicksee [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

Frank Dicksee [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

1. You are looking at your lover. You say, “I’d love to _nibble on your ears, and then kiss my way down your body and suck your cock_ .”

2. In a chat with your best female friend you say, “You look really sexy when you wear _that black shirt with a zebra scarf_ .”

3. Name the one piece of lingerie you would love to see a man wear.
Hmmm…personally, I prefer men naked, and if I had to pick anything, it would be a collar or a cock ring. Is that a stretch to call that lingerie?

4. I wish I did more _orgasming_ in bed.

5. I absolutely LOVE when you kiss my clit  .

Bonus: Tell us your favorite sexual memory of you and your current or most recent lover.
Hmmm…it would have to be the time on New Year’s Eve, when we had the last sex of the old year and then after midnight had the first sex of the new year.



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