Wicked Wednesday: Exposed

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By Midnight68 (Own work) [GFDL or CC BY-SA 3.0], via Wikimedia Commons

I’ve been blogging for quite a while now, and I consider my blog R-rated. When I first started out, I gave a lot of thought to being exposed. I was worried that someone I knew would find my blog and completely freak out that I reviewed sex toys. It’s not that I live in a particularly conservative area, but having people know who I am and what I’m doing in my free time (fucking myself silly with some interesting toys) is a bit disconcerting. I told my husband about it before I started – he didn’t mind my reviewing all the toys, lubes, books, and other things coming my way.

Very few other people know that I blog and review. My best friend knows – I told her about it after I’d had my blog up for a while, when I told her I had an online job working for a sex toy site. She was supportive, and she’s been the recipient of some of my review items over the years, which I think she enjoyed as much as I do.

In a way, I think my blog exposes me – it gives me a way to share my thoughts, feelings, writings, and opinions. I’m not really sure what I’d do if I was exposed in real life now, though.  I think it could be a bit uncomfortable and scary in some ways, and I think I’d have to just be direct and deal with it. There are worse things that could happen…

 

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TMI Tuesday: Clothes Make The Man (Or Woman)

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By Tomwsulcer (Own work) [CC0], via Wikimedia Commons

This week’s TMI Tuesday questions are provided by recusen.weebly.com

1. What is the first garment that you remember?
The very first garment I remember was a Peter Pan suit my Mom made for me when I was about 3. It was green and leafy, with a cap, and I wore it for days on end.

2. What was your first favorite garment??
That’s hard to remember – but I think it was probably my first pair of Jordache jeans. This was back when fancy pockets were just starting to become the rage on jeans, and they made both Jordache and Sergio Valente fancy pocket jeans…for men, not women. A few darts was all it took to turn them into some pretty cool pants.

3. What is your favorite garment now?
I have a few, but one of my favorites is a lime green and yellow t-shirt form Old Navy…it’s just so comfortable, and I wear it all the time when I’m not at work.

4. What garment, of yours, is a favorite of your lover’s and they like for you to wear?
I have a little fishnet dress with vinyl trim that he likes to see me in….I usually wear it with a vinyl g-string and knee-high patent leather boots.

5. What garment do you like your lover to wear for you?
I like him to wear just a simple pair of boxers.

6. What do you think makes a sexy outfit for a woman??
I think the sexiest outfit is one a woman is comfortable in and that enhances her figure.

7. What makes a sexy outfit for a man??
I’m a huge fan of tuxes on men, but they can also look sexy in just a pair of jeans.

8. Do you like to see women in tight clothing??
It depends. If it’s tight in the right places and they’re confident wearing it, yes.

9. Do you like to see men in tight clothing?
Tight jeans, yes.

10. What kind of bathing suit do you wear??
I usually wear a one-piece, with either a low cut front or bright on the bustline – I prefer black suits with color accents.

11. What kind of bathing suit do you find most flattering to a woman??
I’m a big fan of black, and I think a well-cut black suit looks the best.

12. What kind of bathing suit do you find most flattering to a man?
Well, definitely not a Speedo. I think trunks that aren’t obnoxiously colored look the best.

Bonus: Your opinion of yoga pants?
I think they’re pretty cool.

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Wicked Wednesday: Goals

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Edward Burne-Jones [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

I have a lot of goals. Some of them are short-term: pass my Japanese test this week…clean out the garage…both of which are attainable.

A lot of my long term goals tend to be on my bucket list (because some of them are really, really far in the future at the rate I’m going), some are the kind that just can’t be written down for a variety of reasons, and all are a mix of sexual and non-sexual. I don’t know if I originally meant to put so many on the “list of things to do before I die”, but I do hope to do them before I do. I’ve failed at several goals, but some of them have become goals again, and I think they’re attainable. I don’t punish myself when I fail, although it does bring me down.

Sexually, one goal that I met was being able to  squirt. It’s not something I can do consistently, but I’ve now done it several times, so the possibility is there.

In a way I think it’s bad luck to mention some of my goals, as I feel I’m less likely to obtain them if I bring them out in the open….and I really want to hit them…someday soon.

 

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TMI Tuesday: There’s Nothing Sexy About Taxes

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By Usien (Own work) [CC0], via Wikimedia Commons

Wherever you are in the world, assuming you all pay taxes–income or other types, answer the following questions.

1. Are taxes levied where you live?
Yes – at the beginning of the year, I dread getting everything together and going in to have my taxes done.

2. Do you pay your taxes?
Of course! I pay them every year, and try to get them done in March.

3. This year will you owe taxes or do you expect a refund?
This year I was expecting to owe (I honestly wasn’t sure if I would or not, but it seemed likely), but instead I’m getting a small refund, which is good.

4. Have you already filed your taxes?
I have – I filed mine two weeks ago.

5. You are getting a tax refund, which ONE of these would you most likely do with the money??
a. pay off credit cards?
b. contribute to retirement savings?
c. go on vacation?
d. shop for something (car, clothes, household items, etc)
Usually I’m most likely to pick c) go on vacation. This year I’m not sure when we’ll be going on vacation, so the money is going into savings until we decide.

6. Sometimes you just need to have frivolous, and if you get a windfall from a tax refund, which of ONE of these things would you most likely do? Why??
a. have a big party?
b. loan it to family or a friend?
c. spend a weekend at an adults-only erotic resort?
d. gamble (Lottery tickets, casino)
Hmm…if it was a windfall, I would love to do c) spend a weekend at an adults-only erotic resort. I don’t think it would be frivolous, but it would be wonderfully fun. If I had any money left from the windfall, I’d buy some lottery tickets and hit the casino.

Bonus: If you could be a circus performer, which act would you be? (I know soooo random!)
Wow, that’s something I never really thought about! I think I’d be a trapeze artist or an aerialist – that just looks like so much fun – dangerous, yet exhilarating!

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Wicked Wednesday: The Beginning

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By Guscetti (Own work) [CC BY-SA 3.0], via Wikimedia Commons

Begin at the beginning…there are so many beginnings. A lot of the beginnings in my life aren’t very clear – things just were, and I wonder when they started – and I missed out on their formation. Some beginnings, though, are much more defined, and sometimes the start of good things from bad…or the promise of good things that might be.

Death, although the end, has been a beginning in two phases in my recent life. When my Father died, several years ago now, it marked the beginning of my exploration into expanding my life sexually.  That may seem strange, but it hit me hard when he was gone, and I felt I had to shake up my life and start exploring – change was good. It’s been good, these many years, and through that start of wanting to change and making things happen, I’ve discovered so much that I don’t think I ever would have: sex toys, blogging, opening my eyes.

There are other important beginnings, many of which I don’t recognize yet…but someday they will blossom and tell another story.

 

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