TMI Tuesday: Marriage

1. Do you believe in marriage?

2. Have you ever proposed marriage or been proposed to marry? What happened?
I never proposed it, but I have been proposed to. I said yes, of course.

3. What would be your dream way of proposing marriage?
Hmmm….that’s a tough one. I think being somewhere romantic, with just the two of you, would be a nice way to get a proposal. Maybe on the beach in Hawaii, walking along the shore

4. What would be your nightmarish way of proposing marriage?
There’s got to be a lot of bad ways here…maybe at your parent’s funeral?

5. Mainstream society has engagement rings; in your opinion, what token should be given to signify engagement?
I think rings are actually pretty cool.

6. Would you like to participate in an “open” marriage vs. a traditional monogamous marriage? Have you ever given it serious thought? Why or Why not?
This is something that takes a lot of thought by both partners in a marriage – it can’t just be a one-sided decision.

Bonus: Tell us about someone you would have proposed to but never had the chance/opportunity.
All I can think of is Arnold Schwarzenegger – I had such a crush on him when I was younger, I probably would have proposed if he hadn’t been married to Maria Shriver….

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Wicked Wednesday: Communication

A message on a piece of paper….not as transient, or as fleeting, as what you set in front of me….and I will nibble it away, sharing, dipping my finger in and letting you lick it clean….before we slide to the kitchen floor….how can I resist?



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TMI Tuesday: Pet Names and Body Parts

By Ripton Scott from Wimbledon, United Kingdom (Surrounded by OrangeUploaded by Snowmanradio) [CC-BY-SA-2.0], via Wikimedia Commons

By Ripton Scott from Wimbledon, United Kingdom (Surrounded by OrangeUploaded by Snowmanradio) [CC-BY-SA-2.0], via Wikimedia Commons

1. Do you give pet names to anything? (e.g. Significant other. Car. Breasts. Penis. Vagina.)
Hmm….well, once upon a time. I’ve had a car or two that had a pet name. And then there was Sparky…..

2. Is there a pet name that you can’t stand being called?
Love muffin – I’m not real keen on that one.

3. Has your body ever done something that you didn’t understand? Even if it was a ‘first time’ something happened?
The first time I can think of would have been when I had my very first-ever period. I had no idea what was going on.

4. Which body part do you spend the most time on? (grooming, applying, etc.)
Hmm….I’d have to say either my face or my toenails. I don’t spend a ridiculous amount of time putting on makeup, but I can get carried away painting designs on my toenails.

5. The name of the best lover you’ve ever had.
My lips are sealed.

6. Have you ever taken an ex back?
No, I never have.

Bonus: What’s your biggest concern in the world today?
That there’s going to be a nuclear war.


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That Thing You Do

I have an amazing amount of rabbits (sometimes I think they’re breeding in the toy drawers to surprise me), some of which work better for me than others. Last month, I reviewed a compact rabbit; this month, as part of the Cal Exotics’ Sexpert program, I received the full size Entice Charlize rabbit for free to review.

charlizeboxThe Entice Charlize comes in a black box, with a picture of the toy on the front and product info on the sides and back.  Inside the box are Charlize, wrapped in plastic; a USB charging cord; and a general instruction pamphlet.

charlizesideCharlize comes in three colors: pink, raspberry, and purple. Mine arrived in purple, and it’s the signature Cal Exotics warm grape color. This rabbit is made of silicone, which is smooth, silky, and has very little drag to the touch. A gold accent panel lies around the silicone buttons – this panel is made of metallic-plated ABS plastic.

This is a full-sized rabbit, with clean and simple lines. Charlize measures about 7 1/2″ long overall when measured straight up and down, and she has 4” of insertable shaft. The shaft is just 1 1/2″ wide, and it’s widest on the head of the shaft. The shaft itself isn’t round, but more flattened, and the tip is tapered for easier insertion. It’s pretty flexible – except for the upper part where the shaft motor is situated.

charlizeclitflexCharlize has a a longer clit stimulator than many toys – it’s 2 1/4″ long overall, so it should work well for anyone, particularly those who have trouble with clit arms being too short. The arm is 1” wide and has a motor. It’s amazingly flexible, making it very easy to situate when Charlize is in use.

Charlize is rechargeable, and her charging port is on the very bottom of the base. The charging cord is easy to seat firmly into the base, and can then be attached to a computer USB port, or a USB wall adapter.  Red LED lights flash behind the buttons when Charlize is charging, and these lights go out when she’s been fully charged.

charlizebuttonsThis rabbit has two control buttons, located on the front of the base.  The bottom button is the power button, and turns both the shaft and clit arm on and off – when turned back on, Charlize always starts at the first pattern. The top button controls the vibration and patterns for the toy. When first pressed, both the shaft and clit arm motors start up with a steady, moderate vibration.

Pressing the pattern again turns Charlize’s shaft off, but leaves the clit arm on the moderate vibration. Pressing it a third time turns off the clit arm but turns the shaft on to steady, moderate vibration. After that, pressing the button controls both the shaft and clit arm motors, and there are pulsing, escalation, and a combination pattern, before Charlize will go to high, steady vibration. Pressing again, Charlize repeats, starting with the moderate vibrations. All of the vibrations are pretty quiet, and lean towards the buzzy side. They’re moderately strong, and travel well from each motor through the shaft and clit arm.

charlizechargeportCharlize is waterproof, so you can use her in the shower or tub.

This is an easy-to-clean rabbit: wash before and after use with an antibacterial soap and warm water, or use a toy cleaner or toy wipes. After drying, Charlize can be stored in her box, but a better bet would be a toybag. Water-based lube is recommended – if you want to use silicone lube, do a spot test towards the base before applying to the rest of the toy.

charlizeinhandSo, Did It Work? I like the look and feel of this rabbit – and I love the flexibility in the shaft and clit arm. Both the shaft and clit arm are easy to position and move with me, which I like. I also love the length of the clit arm on Charlize – it’s just the right length to hit me how I like, so I can get the pressure and direct stimulation on my clit. I also like that this one is quiet and waterproof.

I wish the vibrations were stronger on Charlize, or even a bit deeper – the high, steady vibrations are moderately strong, which is fine internally, but I could use them stronger clitorally. I am also a bit confused by two of the 7 settings – the shaft-only and clit arm-only options. Rabbits are, quite honestly, not vibrators that I use one or the other but not both. My preference is to have the shaft motor and clit arm motor separate, so I can set one on pulses and the other on steady vibrations, both on at the same time. These two settings on Charlize really do nothing for me at all.

Thank you to Cal Exotics for sending me the Entice Charlize for free in exchange for this review! If you like clean lines, moderate power, flexibility, and a longer clit arm on your rabbit, Charlize is a nice one to take a look at.

This product was provided to me for free in exchange for a unbiased review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

Wicked Wednesday: Wrong Number

The first time I called….I thought I had the wrong number….but it was right after all….now I wait to call again….to make that slip of the finger…to hear your voice again…


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