Wicked Wednesday: First Time

The first time….late at night, you took me out on the field….I was young and naive, and didn’t know….and you hurt me….but you did awaken me….and I will always remember that night in the grass, with the stars watching us…



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TMI Tuesday: Let’s Get Serious

Hieronymus Bosch (circa 1450–1516) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

Hieronymus Bosch (circa 1450–1516) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

1. What are you most afraid of?
Hmmm…that’s a tough one. When I was younger, I used to be terribly afraid of dying. I remember being 5 or so, terrified to go to sleep and not wake up, and afraid of the darkness, and endless nothingness. Now, I guess I’m most afraid of dying before I do the things I want to do, while I have the time and the health to do them.

2. Do you believe in life after death?
I don’t know, honestly. I’d like to think that this isn’t it, and that everything just…stops.

3. What is your purpose?
I don’t know if I’ve really found my purpose yet, but I’m searching for it.

4. Where are you going?
Sometimes I feel like I’m going nowhere, just spinning in circles. Other times I feel like I’m just beginning the journey of the rest of my life.

5. Do you fear hell? Why or why not?
No, I don’t fear hell. I don’t really believe in hell, and even if I did, I don’t think I’m a bad enough person that I would end up there.

6. Do you feel free?
No, I don’t. Maybe free in some ways, but not free at all in others.

Bonus: Why do people point to their wrist when asking for the time, but people don’t point to their crotch when asking where is the bathroom?
Do people still look at their wrists for the time? Well, I suppose that’s going to be more frequent with the new watch that works with the new iPhone, but kids don’t understand the gesture at all.  Pointing at one’s crotch seems more like “fuck me” or “check out what I have down here” than “I have to pee”, though, so that may be why?

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Wicked Wednesday: The Truth

What is the truth? Sometimes fleeting….sometimes lingering….often dangerous…and hidden…but yet it can free you….and be sublime….


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TMI Tuesday: What’s In Your Car?

By AlfvanBeem (Own work) [CC0], via Wikimedia Commons

By AlfvanBeem (Own work) [CC0], via Wikimedia Commons

Answer these questions as they pertain to your personal mode of transportation.
1. What CD is in your CD player?
I rarely buy CDs anymore – usually I buy songs off of iTunes and load them on an old iPhone, so I have about 1/2 of my music library available in the car. I do actually have a CD in the CD player currently, though, which has a nice mix:
“Fake It” by Seether

“Symphony of Destruction” by Megadeth

“Inside the Fire” by Disturbed

“Stupify” by Disturbed

“Ten Thousand Fists” by Disturbed

“Deify” by Disturbed

“Ich Tu Dir Weh” by Rammstein

“Los” by Rammstein

“Liebe Ist Fur Alle Da” by Rammstein

“Sehnsucht” by Rammstein

“Mein Land” by Rammstein

“Jordan” by Megaherz

2. Turn on your car radio, what station is it tuned to?
A classic rock station – selection is limited in town, but this has some interesting choices for “classic” music. Or I’m getting old.

3. What is in your glove box?
The manual, an aux cable for the stereo, phone charger, and some spare change.

4. Are there any stickers on your bumper? What? (You can post photos too).
I have never actually put a bumper sticker on my car. I own some, mostly along the lines of “Miskatonic University – Go Pods!” and “Smile, Cthulhu Loathes You”, but they’ve never graced my bumper.

5. What stickers or car magnets are on your car? (You can post photos too).?
I have a parking sticker, but that’s about it.

6. When you drive do you have a favorite beverage? What?
Would it surprise you if I said it was coffee? I think I drink more coffee when I’m driving than any other beverage.

7. What is the most unique thing about your car?
Hmm…my car is not very unique, but I suppose it would be the fact that my front logo is missing – apparently someone was missing theirs, so they took mine. It does make mine easy to find in the parking lot, though.

8. Have you modified or decorated or enhanced your steering wheel?
Nope – it’s the same steering wheel my car came with.

9. If your normal mode of transportation is a bicycle or a motorcycle, what have you done to personalize it?
Neither of these is my normal mode of transportation, although I do ride a bicycle – it’s not customized, but it is purple.

10. If your regular mode of transportation is public transport–bus or subway–what do you do to pass the time on your rides?
These aren’t my regular mode of transportation either – no subway or bus here.

Bonus: What is the sexiest thing in your car?
Me when I’m in it, of course!

Bonus, Bonus: What does your choice of personal or regular mode of transportation say about you?
I guess mine says I’m practical, but looks can be deceiving.

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I Wanna Rock

There are so many ways to masturbate. And while I like using my hands, I also like to be able to use my vibrators and toys hands free. I’ve tried several different ones that allow you to rock them, and this month I was happy to receive the Power Play Dual Pleaser for free to review as part of Cal Exotics’ Sexpert Program.
calexinboxThe Power Play Dual Pleaser comes in a large clear clamshell with the product displayed through the front, and a paper insert visible through the back provides product information in several languages. The packagine is easy to open, and inside it are the pleaser, its attached remote, and a small paper with general instructions.

calexoutofboxThis vibrating toy is available in 3 colors: blue, purple, and pink. I received mine in pink, and it’s a rich raspberry color – closer to magenta than pink. Both the controller and Pleaser match in color. The Pleaser is made from smooth silicone, as is the control button, while the controller is made of ABS plastic covered in PU cote and the decor is ABS plastic with silver plating.

calexinhandThe Dual Pleaser is a toy that is meant to stimulate both internally and clitorally, and also to be used hands’free. The toy is 5” long from top to bottom overall. Its shaft is short, with 3 3/4” being insertable, and the shaft is 1 1/4” in diameter. The shaft is curved at the top, and the head is flexile over a rigid shaft which is covered with raised areas that give the Dual Pleaser a nice look. A bulge about midway down the shaft indicates where the motor is located.

The base is 3” long and about 1 1/8” wide at its widest; this piece has a small amount of give. The top side of the base, which reaches from the shaft to the clit, is lightly ringed for added texxture. The silicone the Pleaser is made of has just a bit of give, and isn’t sticky or tacky.

calexremoteThe toy is conected by a 24” power cord to the controller. The controller is large, at 5 3/4” long and almost 2” wide. Its back side is contoured to make the remote comfortable to hold. It has just one button on its front.

Why such a large remote, you might ask? Twist the remote open at its silver dividing line and remove the battery holder, and you’ll see why: the Dual Pleaser runs off of 4AAA batteries instead of the usual two. Battery direction is clearly labeled, and the battery holder is easy to remove and insert into the base. Twist the remote halves firmly back together, and the Dual Pleaser will be waterproof and ready to join you in the shower or tub.

To turn on the Dual Pleaser, press the button once. The Pleaser will start out on low, steady vibration. It has three speeds in all: low, medium, and high, and a fourth push will turn the Pleaser off. The vibrations are fairly strong and quite buzzy,  concentrated in the shaft, and they are a bit loud, especially if the Pleaser is used hands-free and the vibrations transmit through a couch or chair. You’ll need a moderate amount of background sound to cover up your use of this one (it’s louder in the water).

calexbatterypackThis toy is easy to clean with antibacterial soap and water, a toy cleaner, or toy wipes. When dry, it can be stored in a toy bag or box. Waterbased-lubes are recommended, but if you prefer to use a silicone-based lube, do a spot test on the bottom of the base first.

So, Did It Work? The Dual Pleaser is a good size, and it’s comfortable to insert, as well as to sit on. The vibrations are decently strong in the shaft, although there’s only the three steady settings and no patterns to choose from. The size of the clit arm is great – it’s long enough to hit where I need it to.

Unfortunately, while the clit arm is the right size, it’s missing one thing: vibrations. The only bullet in the toy is in the middle of the shaft, and the vibrations don’t transmit well into the base. I need strong vibrations on my clit to orgasm, and they’re missing on this one for me, even on the highest vibration setting.

Thank you to Cal Exotics for sending me the Dual Pleaser for free to review! If you don’t need much in the way of vibrations on your clit, and prefer steady vibration internally, the Dual Pleaser may work for you.

This product was provided to me for free in exchange for this unbiased review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.