Wicked Wednesday: Past, Present, Future

What was I like in the past…who am I now….what will I become? From timid to bold…from confident to confused….from simple to complex….loved…

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TMI Tuesday: Sexual Practices

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1. How much sex is too much sex? Explain.
Is it possible to have too much sex? I suppose if it’s interfering with other things in life (like eating and sleeping) it might be too much, but otherwise I don’t think there’s enough hours in the day to have sex.

2. According to the Kinsey Institute,  18-29 year olds have sex an average of 112 times per year, 30-39 year olds an average of 86 times per year, and 40-49 year olds an average of 69 times per year (how appropriate!)
a. Which group of averages would you prefer to belong?
I’d prefer to be in the 18-29 average, if I had to pick from just these.

b. Based on your age (if listed), find your group above. Would you say you are well below, pretty close to or high above your group’s average for having sex per year?
I’d say I’m well above my group’s average. Well above all the groups’ averages, actually.

3. Swinging (defined here)– have you tried it? Will you try it? Do you hope/wish to try it before you die?
I’ve never tried swinging. If my husband was open to it and we found an appropriate couple, then I might try it…it’s not like it’s anything on my bucket list, though.

4. What is “having sex”? According to YOU and prior to this TMI Tuesday did you consider:?
– Masturbation as having sex? Yes or No
– Performing oral sex as having sex? Yes or No
I usually consider having sex to be…well, having sex…penetration, either vaginally or anally, and hopefully with foreplay. I don’t call masturbation having sex, even though it is having sex with myself. Oral sex for me is rarely on its own – it’s part of the whole sex package.

5. When was the last time you received oral sex?
This morning.

Bonus:  What is it?
what-is-it-july-29-2014It looks like a fertility statue, from some old culture. I’d guess it’s maybe Etruscan?

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Summer Loving!

summerfrontSummer Loving is an anthology put together by the fabulous Alison Tyler, featuring 20 hot and steamy stories for your reading pleasure. This anthology benefits the lovely Sommer Marsden (all profits go to Sommer and her family), and you can read more about how it came about here.

I’m absolutely thrilled to have my story, “Hot as Ice” included in this collection!

The full table of contents is:
Foreword: Angell Brooks
Moon Lovers by Donna George Storey
Housework Can Wait by Sophia Valenti
Heat Upon Heat by Lucy Felthouse
Fireworks Display by Emerald
Summer Surrender by Jodie Griffin
Tell Me by May Deva
Summer Lightning by Teresa Noelle Roberts
To Hell with Sunset by A.M. Hartnett
The Chaperone by Primula Bond
Hot as Ice by Sammi Lou Thorne
Protection by Elise Hepner
An Oven on Broil by Tenille Brown
Summer in December by Tamsin Flowers
Splash by Kathleen Delaney-Adams
Hot Tomato by Thomas S. Roche
Arizona, Ireland, New England by Cheyenne Blue
Baby, It’s Hot Outside by Delilah Night
Summer School by Rachel Kramer Bussel
Night Swimming by Justine Elyot
When In Nice by Alison Tyler

Summer Loving is available at Amazon.com (in both paperback and kindle formats), as well as SmashWords, Barnes & Noble, and Kobo . I hope you’ll pick up a copy!

Wicked Wednesday: Last Tree

If I were the last tree standing…alone…would you cut me and let me fall? Would you leave me to join with the forest floor… becoming one with the earth as I desired? Or would you carry me home…carve me into something different…sand my rough edges…and polish me into something beautiful and useful for you to enjoy?

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TMI Tuesday: Can We Talk…Relationships?

By Faisal Akram from Dhaka, Bangladesh (To The Sea We Went) [CC-BY-SA-2.0], via Wikimedia Commons

By Faisal Akram from Dhaka, Bangladesh (To The Sea We Went) [CC-BY-SA-2.0], via Wikimedia Commons

1. What is the first thing that pops into your mind when you see an attractive person?
Sometimes I wonder what they’re like, and if they’d be a good person to be friends with.

2. What is your idea of a dream date? Describe the person and the type of date experience.
Hmmm…well, they’d be male, good-looking and easy to talk to. I think a great date would be a stroll along the beach, hand-in-hand, followed by a swim, and then maybe a barbecue on the beach with a few drinks…and who knows what else?

3. How many serious relationships have you had? Were you in love?
I’ve had a few.  In some I’ve been in love, and in some not.

4. How many casual sexual relationships have you had?
I’ve had a few of this kind too.

5. What will ruin a relationship for you?
There’s a lot of things that can ruin a relationship – I don’t think there’s one that really tops the list for me though.

Bonus: What is your definition of sexy? Sexy is a combination of looks, brains, and attitude. A person can be the hottest looking on the planet, but if they’ve got a bad attitude, are insecure, or have rocks for brains, they’re definitely not sexy.

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