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TMI Tuesday: Take A Look At Me Now

Painting of a woman in red showing her knickers to men.

[Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

1. What was your biggest worry five years ago, do you still have that same worry or feel the same about it at this minute?
Five years ago, I think my biggest worry was how my Mom was doing, and if I’d have to move her down to live with me. That’s not a worry any more…unfortunately.

2. Do you have a positive or negative body image? What factors contribute to your self body image?
a. advertisements
b. media and social media
c. comments from others
d. introspection and analysis of self
I think my body image is mostly positive. There are things I like about my body and things I don’t, but the positives outweigh the negatives now. I think all of the above contribute to my self body image, but probably c and d the most.

3. How confident are you as a person?
a. no confidence at all
b. confident around friends and family
c. confident at work, and in my job
d. very confident in my surroundings–work, social settings, with strangers
I would say mostly b and c, but sometimes also in social settings and with strangers.

4. How creative a person are you? Why?
a. not creative
b. average creativity
c. creative in some situations
d. very creative
I would say d. I think I’m creative in a variety of ways, from writing to drawing, and other types of crafts like quilting where I make my own patterns.

5. Do you resent things being uncertain and unpredictable? Why?
a. agree
b. undecided or Don’t Know
c. disagree
I wouldn’t say I resent things being uncertain and unpredictable, but I don’t particularly like them when they are.

Bonus: What do you wish you had invented?
I wish I would have invented the Kindle and post-it notes. Oh, and the warp drive.

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TMI Tuesday: You, You, You

painting of a man and a woman in bed

[Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

1. If you were an ice-cream flavor, what would you be and why?
Hmmm…I think I’d be Pistachio. I’m smooth and subtle, and just a bit nutty.

2. What are the best sexy skills you bring to a sexual relationship?
I think my desire to please and try anything are skills that I bring. Plus, I love to give head, and I think I’m quite good at it.

3. What is the single largest problem causing you angst in your romantic relationship (current or most recent relationship)?
That’s a tough one. I guess right now it’s a problem of conflict and uncertainty.

4. What is the best part about being in a relationship with you?
I think the best part is knowing that I love unconditionally, and I’m a good conversationalist. Well, plus I’m good in bed.

5. What is the biggest misconception that people have about you?
Being blonde, it’s usually that I’m not very smart. And that is very far from the truth.

Bonus:  When you look at old photos of yourself, do you like what you see?
For the most part, yes. There are different ages that I am happier with, but overall I do like what the photos show.


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TMI Tuesday: What Kind Of Person Are You?

Painting of a woman doing her hair - Angelo Caroselli Allegoria della vanita

[Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

1. Are you addicted to any social media (twitter, instagram, snapchat, etc.)?
I’m pretty addicted to Facebook, and somewhat to Twitter. I don’t use the others very much.

2. You know a secret about someone. What do you do with that information?
a. I keep it to yourself
b. I tell my best friend
c. I wait until they hurt me and use it as ammunition
d. I tell everyone I can, I don’t mean to, I just cannot keep a secret
Usually a or b. If it’s about someone that both my best friend and I know, I keep it to myself. If it’s someone they don’t know, then I might tell them about it.

3. You see someone breaking the rules at work, what do you do?
a. Pretend not to see what is going on
b. Inform upper management
c. Advise the co-worker that their actions are frowned upon and can lead to job loss
d. Tell everyone else in the office what you saw
Well, that depends on exactly what kind of rule they broke. If it was something minor, I’d probably do a. If it was something more important, I’d do c.

4. A friend has a new hairstyle that is un-becoming, and not really age-appropriate on them. They ask you how they look. What is your reply?
a. You look just fine.
b. You look much better this way.
c. OMG, you look a bit ridiculous.
d. *Silence*
If I really think it looks bad, and they’re a good friend, it’d be c.

5. How helpful are you at home?
a. I come home and immediately veg out on the couch/bed.
b. I cook and clean a few times a week.
c. I am extremely helpful.
d. I do what I am asked and nothing more.
Usually b.

Bonus: In your opinion, what is the best city in the world? Why?
Hmmm…that’s a tough one. If I were to pick by cities I’ve been to, I think I’d go with Las Vegas. I love the action on the strip, the night life, the shows, the weather…really everything about it.

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TMI Tuesday: It’s Just A Fantasy

drawing of a woman and two men having sex by Paul Chenavard.

[Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

1. If your lover was turned on by forced feminization would you participate (giving or receiving)? *forced feminization is the practice of enforcing activities on a male, which are typically associated with women, to make him submissive. For example: wearing lingerie, heels, make-up.
Hmmm…I don’t know. I’d try, but it’s not something I’m into, so I think it would be difficult.

2. When you have sexual dreams or fantasies that are aggressive or cruel, does it worry you?
No, it doesn’t worry me. I think it’s just an outlet, and often fantasies are quite a bit different than reality. I don’t think I’ve ever had dreams or fantasies that were cruel, but I’ve certainly had ones that were aggressive.

3. Tell us your hottest, sexiest fantasy, right now, in 100 words or less.  This is the fantasy about your desires that you probably never share, maybe they even go against your morals or are societal taboos.
Me, with my two loves, naked on a king sized bed, fucking and playing until all of us were spent. Then heading to the large hot tub for some sexy play in the water.

4. Which super hero would you like to have sex with? Why?
a. Aquaman
b. Superman
c. Wonder Woman
d. She-Ra
Oh, definitely Aquaman. He’s got cool superpowers, and he’s rather hot.

5. Do you think the lure to live out sexual fantasies or have sex frequently is amplified by technology? Briefly explain.
I think it can be.  Take porn for example. No matter what your kink is, it’s readily available to watch on your phone or laptop. There’s also VR and sex dolls that are quite a bit different than the old blow-up ones.

Bonus: Describe your fantasy life in three (3) words.
Hot, dirty, intense.

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TMI Tuesday: This Excited

painting by victor florence pollet of diana and endemion

By Victor-Florence Pollet (Internet) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

1. If you had a whole week (no work, no kids) to do things with your significant other, what would you do?
Hmmm….there’s a couple of things that would be fun, but I think what I’d most enjoy would be to go to a beach resort where we could be pampered in the spa during the day, then walk hand in hand across the beach and swim in the ocean at night, go snorkeling, and just relax.

2. What is your idea of a long-term relationship?
I think any relationship that lasts longer than 2 years is a long-term relationship.

3. What is a healthy relationship?
A healthy relationship is one where you trust each other and allow the other person the freedom to be themselves. Things stay fresh, and don’t stagnate.

4. How did you meet your current (or last) lover?
At the mall…a crazy place to meet someone, but there ya go.

5. What is the first thing you do after having sex?
My preference is to cuddle, but otherwise it’s off to the bathroom.

Bonus: Do you have any bad habits that you hide from your significant other? You can tell us…or not.
Ha – well, I have a fair number of bad habits, and one or two that I do hide from my spouse. And, since they’re not out in the open I can’t tell you here.


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