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TMI Tuesday: WTH Is She Thinking?!

By published under psudonym Dumoulin, J.-X. (Humiliations chéries) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

By published under psudonym Dumoulin, J.-X. (Humiliations chéries) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

1. You have been asked to organize a sex & kink weekend. Will you be more of a “hands-on” person or more of an “ideas” person?
Hmm…tough decision! I think I’d like to be a bit of both – come up with ideas for the weekend, as that would be fun, but also participate. There’s no better way to learn than hands-on, after all.

2. Assuming you are the hands-on type at this weekend sex romp, and you’ve entered a tent to ‘play’ with a male/female couple. Would you like to be given clear instructions before you begin to ‘play’ or do you prefer to be given the general idea of the task and work it out your own way.
I am more of a free-thinker, and I think it would be much more enjoyable to have the general idea and play it out than to have the whole thing entirely scripted.

3. True or False. “During sex, I like to hear and accept feedback.”
True. I like feedback, especially when it’s in the form of moans and sighs.

4. What are you wearing right now?
Right now I’m wearing a tiger-striped thong under a pair of grey shorts, and a black and grey t-shirt (no bra).

5. I show loyalty to my lover by _being receptive and communicating__ .

6. Do you always have to argue?
No – I don’t ever really have to, although if I’m right about something I most definitely will. And I’m usually pretty good at it.

Bonus: Pick up the closest book to you, open it to page 55. The first line on that page reads:
”…miser, you hoard up all the beauty in these drawers.” This is from The Collector, by John Fowles.

 

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TMI Tuesday: Happy St. Patrick’s Day

By National Library of Ireland on The Commons (Flickr: Happy St. Patrick's Day!) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

By National Library of Ireland on The Commons (Flickr: Happy St. Patrick’s Day!) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

1. You found your pot o’ gold. How much is in the pot? What will you do with your gold?
Can it be bottomless? I can’t come up with an exact dollar amount, but enough to make me happy until the day I die. I would probably splurge on a few new things (house, car, private island), and then save what I didn’t spend for a rainy day.

2. Some things get better with age, have you? What specifically has gotten better?
Hmm…yes, I’ve gotten better, except for my memory. I think I’ve gotten better with managing and being in touch with my feelings, and better pursuing what I want in life.

3. Are you above average or below average?
I would say I’m above average.

4. What was the last romantic act you did for someone? Did they appreciate it?
The last romantic thing I did for someone was write something for them….and I think they appreciated it.

5. Think back to your very last argument, whose fault was it?
I suppose it’s always my fault….

Bonus: I have an overactive _libido_ .

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TMI Tuesday: Spring, the Season of Love

By Benjamin Gimmel, BenHur (Own work) [GFDL or CC-BY-SA-3.0], via Wikimedia Commons

By Benjamin Gimmel, BenHur (Own work) [GFDL or CC-BY-SA-3.0], via Wikimedia Commons

1. Spring vacation, will you take one? Where?
I would love to take a spring vacation, to somewhere sunny – California, or Hawaii, or even Florida. While it won’t happen this year, I have my hopes up for next year.

Springtime Love
2. Do you become friskier as the temperatures outside heat up?
I do – I think when it’s cold, and dark so much outside, that I go into a bit of sexual hibernation. Usually the warmer it gets, the friskier I become.

3. Do you flirt more in spring vs. other times of the year?
Hmmm….possibly?

4. Do you dress sexier in the spring?
Definitely – I love to wear skirts and dresses in the summer, which I think are always sexier than pants.

5. What day of the week do you have sex most often?
That’s kind of a toss-up. I’d guess maybe Saturday.

Falling in love takes one-fifth of a second
It takes a fifth-of-a-second for the euphoria-inducing chemicals to start acting on the brain when you are looking at that special someone. –Source

6. Do you use kissing as an important way to test out a new mate? Good kissers, keep and move forward to another stage in a budding relationship. Bad kissers, get pruned and dumped.
I imagine so – that certainly makes a lot of sense.

7. What do you expect from marriage?
a. safety and solidarity and security
b. a journey towards self-fulfillment and self-actualization with a partner that ‘gets’ you.
I think both of those – I don’t think it would be a good marriage if one of those was missing.

8. Acts of love & kindness. Which would mean more to you:
a. Taking your partner a cup of tea in bed (or receiving that cup of tea)
b. Giving or receiving a box of chocolates or flowers
A would definitely mean more. It’s a simple gesture, but gestures are often worth so much more than actual gifts.

Bonus: In your late teens or early 20s did you take wild spring break vacations with friends? What is the wildest, craziest, sexiest thing you did on a “gone wild” spring break?
Unfortunately I never got to take a wild spring break vacation, but I wish I would have!

 

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TMI Tuesday: Down Right Sexy!

Édouard-Henri Avril [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

Édouard-Henri Avril [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

1. Have you ever had sex in three or more positions in one session? Name the positions.
Well, yes. Usually, in fact. Our typical positions are missionary, standing from behind, and doggie, although sometimes I like to be on top.

2. Have you ever had sex continuously for more than an hour? Was it all intercourse or other methods of sexual pleasure?
Yes again. While quickies can be fun, I like having long, slower sessions. It’s not all intercourse, but includes a lot of foreplay, and afterplay, which often leads to more intercourse.

3. Have you ever planned and devoted an entire day to sex and sexual activity (with breaks for eating, etc)?
I’ve done this before, although not nearly often enough. It definitely makes for a good day.

4. Have you ever been so loud having sex that housemates/neighbors commented or complained?
On too many occasions to count. I’ve learned that in the summer I need to keep the windows closed – someone once told me that they thought someone was being murdered right down the street – thankfully they didn’t realize what they were really listening to.

5. Have you ever had your sexual technique/style/skill openly praised by someone?
My oral skills, yes.

6. Have you ever gotten really turned on by saying or hearing dirty talk?
Dirty talk can be a real turn-on. I love to be talked dirty to, and I’m pretty good at talking that way as well.

Bonus: What word or words said during sex totally turn you off or distract you from the task at hand?
None really, at least that are said by either of us.

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TMI Tuesday: Sexpectations

By Desira (Own work) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

By Desira (Own work) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

1. What are some challenges related to your sex life?
Hmmm….I think the main challenge is finding time, and trying to make time where there isn’t any.

?2. Is quality or quantity most important?
Sexually? I would say quality is most important, but I’d hope it’d be quality in quantity.

?3. How much sex is enough??
I don’t think there’s ever enough!

4. I want to have more _eye-rolling orgasms_ .

5. I would like to attempt new sex positions such as _having sex underwater, or in a swing__ .

6. I would like to stop doing _no_ sex position. (There isn’t a position that I have sex in that I hate – any that I do I stopped doing a long time ago).

7. To me foreplay means _kissing, touching, caressing, and a good amount of oral_ .

8. Something I think about a lot related to sex is _having sex in my office_ .

Bonus: Tell us something you love about your sex life.
I love the mind-blowing orgasms – the ones that bring me to tears, over and over again. I love that I can have as many orgasms as I can handle, and don’t have to stop at just one. I also love being able to be open about using sex toys – they add a whole new dimension to sex.

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