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What Shall I Hit You With Tonight?

Recently I got the new Sportsheets Crop Top System.  It’s a really great way to add variety and also add to your crop collection!  The kit comes with a crop shaft and 3 heads that can be used to change up the fun (or coordinate with the rest of your wardrobe for the evening).

The three tops that come in the set are a brown hand, purple heart, and black wide loop.  All are made of faux leather, and securely attached to a coupler.

Here’s a close-up of the coupler.  It slips into the hole at the top of the shaft and holds the top securely in place so you can use as much (or as little) force as you want without worrying that the top will come off and go flying.

This is a really fun set, and a way to have variety in your crops. And, of course, it’s a great way to color coordinate your play night!  You can read my full review at EdenFantasys by clicking here.
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Crop by Sportsheets
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Three’s Company

One of the kinds of encounters I fantasize about the most is a three-way, with myself and two men. While it’s never something I’d actually do, it’s fun and erotic to think about, watch, and read about for me. When the selections for December came out from the Sexis Naked Reader Book Club, I knew the one I wanted to read was Three-Way (Erotic Stories).

Three-Way is a large oversized paperback published in 2004 by Cleis Press. It has 210 pages, and the type is easy tor read. It contains an introduction by its editor Alison Tyler, as well as an about the authors section, about the editor page, and 19 stories that redefine the three-way.

Alison, who has written over 20 novels and numerous short stories, begins her introduction talking about the first threesomes she had. Her first was at eighteen, although she didn’t actually have sex. Her second was at nineteen with her editor and her editor’s roommate. When putting this collection together, Alison chose some of her favorite ménage a trois stories to include. Some of the stories are classic three-ways, with either two men and a woman or two women and a man. Others are a bit more imaginative in their definition and portrayal, while a few feature group sex.

These stories run the gamut – and when the couplings are classic the participants for the most part all interact instead of focusing their efforts on one of the partners. Some of the encounters are planned, while others are spur of the moment, as in Thomas S. Roche’s “Two Guys and a Girl” which takes place in a porn theater. Two three-ways take place with two participants and a “phone friend”, while in A. J. Stone’s “If You Can Make it There, You Can Make It Anywhere” a cabdriver is the third wheel to a backseat lesbian encounter. There’s even a three-way with a man and his tattooed girl as well as an all-girl orgy.

While some of the stories didn’t do much for me, there were several that stood out:

“Three for the Money” by Marilyn Jane Lewis   Mr. Santos was one of her favorite tricks. They had an interesting relationship, and going to his funeral causes her, now living respectably with a day office job, to reminisce about her relationship with him. What started as simple trysts and anal sex progressed to conversation and finally an engagement with Mr. Santos, a woman he sees, and her. The woman is quite a surprise, but she plays out the tawdry scene in a school girl uniform with Mr. Santos and his woman in a seedy hotel to everyone’s relative satisfaction.

“Endings” by Julia Moore   Daniel and Josh were friends. Daniel was her boyfriend, and Josh her lover. Little did Tasha realize that there was more to fucking each of them until the night she had them both.

“The New Fiancee” by N. T. Morley   Meredith and Phillip are engaged to be married. One night when she returns home from work, she finds his ex-wife Yvanna there. In this master/slave relationship, Meredith finds herself in a wild three-way with the two, and learns of her Master’s plans to introduce her to his other 3 exes.

“All McQueen’s Men” by Alison Tyler   Julissa’s a poker player, and a damned good one. Raymond is sure she’s been unfaithful. She hasn’t been yet, but her poker buddies are up to her raising the stakes.   This story is more than a threesome, but great nonetheless.

I preferred the stories that actually involved three people interacting.  While the more creative threesomes were interesting and not bad stories, they didn’t really seem to fit the theme of the book, and I would have enjoyed reading more actual threesome encounters.  Some of the stories I didn’t find arousing, but the gems in this collection made the book worthwhile for me.

If you like stories which involve scenarios with more than two participants, you should enjoy this book. Within the nineteen stories, there are sure to be a few that tickle your fancy.

The Sexis Naked Reader Book Club holds discussions in the EdenFantasys forums twice a month. Be on the lookout for a discussion of Three-Way. If you’d like to pick up Three-Way, you can get your copy at EdenFantasys by clicking the widget below.

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Book by Collection of Stories by Various Authors / Edited by Alison Tyler
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Cleis Press Inc.
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer.

This product was provided to me for free in exchange for an unbiased review.  This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

Regular or Unleaded? How About Diesel?

Lately it seems I’ve been getting a lot of realistic dildos. Most of them are generically realistic – not modeled from anyone – but I thought one modeled on a porn star might be more interesting. My first one was a vibrating Mr. Marcus, which was a lot of fun. This time, I opted for a non-vibrating one of a porn star I’ve enjoyed watching for some time now, Shane Diesel.

Shane Diesel’s Cock comes in a large, shiny box. And I do mean large. The front of the box has a picture of Shane, and boldly proclaims “100% huge!” The back of the box has an actual size photo of the dildo inside, and it entirely fills the box back. Inside the box is the dildo and a photo card of Shane stroking his massive cock.

This is not a dildo for the faint of heart. Shane’s cock is 10” tall (7 1/2″ of that are insertable) and the shaft has an impressive 2 1/8” diameter. It’s detailed from the head down the veiny shaft, and even the balls look real. The texture is mild, and is only lightly felt during use. The color is described as chocolate, but it’s a lot lighter than other skin-toned toys I’ve use. It’s firm, yet has a nice flexibility that makes it easy to thrust with.

The suction cup works well, even though Shane’s cock is pretty heavy. If the surface is smooth, like your tiled shower, it will hold this to the wall for hands-free play and maintain a good suction without sliding down the wall. There’s no gap between the suction cup and the base – it appears to be molded from one piece rather than attached – so you can have fun with Shane’s cock in the tub or shower without worry of water getting up inside.

The one drawback to Shane’s cock is that it’s made of Ultra Realistic 3.0 (or UR3 for short). While this material is phthalates-free and latex free, and it’s quite flexible and real-feeling, it is porous and has quite an odor. You can smell this cock through the packaging before you ever take it out of the box. Washing with antibacterial soap and water will cut the scent a bit, but it never quite goes away, and you’ll want to store Shane’s cock away from your other toys (unless they’re made of a similar material) or you’ll transfer the scent to them as well. When used with a lubricant, the odor is much less noticeable. If you’re concerned about this toy being porous, you’ll want to use it with a condom.

Since it is made of UR3, dusting Shane’s cock with a bit of cornstarch after you’ve thoroughly washed it will help keep it from becoming sticky when it’s stored away. Water-based lubricants are recommended.

So, Does It Work? This is a nice dildo. I love the size and feel of it. I prefer a larger size, and Shane’s cock delivers nicely. I like that it’s firm enough to thrust with, even though it’s fairly flexible. It’s filling and feels pretty lifelike when covered with lube.

I also really like the suction cup on this toy. I wasn’t sure when I took it out of the box if it would actually be strong enough to hold this on the shower wall (it’s a pretty heavy cock), but hold it does. I’ll have to see if, over time, the suction cup pulls away from the base, but since it appears to be one piece I think the likelihood of this happening is very low. My husband also found both the suction cup and the balls easy to hold on to when using this on me. He doesn’t care for baseless toys for that reason, and this one helped him keep control.

The only thing I don’t like about Shane’s cock is the smell of the UR3. I wish there was something that could be added to take it away. I love the feel of it, but the smell is something else. Lubricant, even unscented, cuts it way down during use so it’s not very noticeable, but out of the box it’s strong.

Overall, if you’re looking for a good sized dildo that feels real and even has a suction cup for hands-free use, Shane Diesel’s Cock is a good choice.

Thank you to EdenFantasys for sending this to me to review! If you’d like to try Shane Diesel’s Cock (or, at least, a replica of it), you can buy yours from EdenFantasys by clicking the widget below.

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Realistic dildo by New Sensations
Material: Ultra realistic 3.0 (UR3)
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Tied Up, Wide, and Spread to the World

There’s nothing quite like a spreader bar. I always find myself closing my legs when I think I’ve had enough but my husband doesn’t, and a spreader bar is a great way to keep me open and exposed. I was intrigued by the Spread ‘Em Bar & Cuff Set from Pipedream, so I was happy to review this one for EdenFantasys.

This bar and cuff set is part of Pipedream’s Fetish Fantasy series. It includes a 25” spreader bar, a 12” spreader bar, four adjustable neoprene cuffs, an adjustable collar, and a mask. The collar isn’t listed in the contents or on the cardboard packaging, but it’s included all the same and makes for a nice, complete set.

Everything comes in a black bag which is just over 25” long. The bag has a woven nylon loop on the top that can be used to hang the set on a hook or in your closet out of the way. It also has a nylon handle for easy carrying. The bag zips open, and comes with a lock and 2 keys as well. The lock is a standard suitcase lock – it’s not that hard to open but can provide enough deterrent to keep the contents away from curious eyes.

The long bar just fits in the bag, and can be a bit tricky to insert and remove. It has rubber ends and 1” rings that are attached to a chain running through the bar. The rings swivel a bit, and you can pull each slightly out to allow for some adjustment if the cuffs are clipped to the ends. A ring is also located 8” from each end to which you can attach cuffs or chains.

The short bar is similar in construction, but it has 1 ring set in its center for attachment. Affixed to this ring is a nylon lead that can be extended to a 16” length (to the end of the lobster hook) or shortened to a length of 10”. This lead cannot be removed, unless you decide to cut it off.

The four cuffs are neoprene with a Velcro closure, and each is 2” wide with a swivel lobster hook attached so the cuffs will attach to any of the rings on the bars, or even to each other. The wrist cuffs are 10 1/2″ long (with Velcro covering 7 1/2″ of the cuff), and the ankle cuffs are 12” long (8 1/2″ of Velcro on the cuff). They can be adjusted to a wide range of ankle and wrist sizes and the Velcro keeps the cuffs firmly on.

The matching collar that’s included is 17” long and has a D-ring attached. Velcro covers 14”, so it can be adjusted quite a bit. You can clip the cuffs to the collar or use any lead as necessary.

The blindfold is just a thin piece of satin with an elastic strap. It’s not the most comfortable blindfold but it will do in a pinch, and it does block your vision.

The set is easy to clean. Both the bars and cuffs can be wiped down if necessary with water and dried. The blindfold can be tossed in the washer in a laundry bag and drip-dried or tumbled on low in the dryer.

So, Did It Work? This set is great!  I love how versatile it is and how the two bars can be used alone or together to create a different restraint. Cuff and connect ankles to the end of the large bar and wrists to its interior rings, and you are downright helpless. Put on the collar and clip the lead from the short bar to it, attach cuffed wrists to the bar, and your arms are restrained nicely. Want arms restrained behind the back? The small bar works well this way too. The large and small bar can be clipped together with the lead, and although it’s off-center, you are fully restrained and relatively immobile. We tried this every which way: standing, bent over, on hands and knees, and on my back, and it was a lot of fun.

I like how this comes with a matching collar, too – that was a bonus I wasn’t expecting. The blindfold is fine in a pinch, but I have another lightweight one that I keep in the bag.  I like the Velcro on the collar and cuffs, too – it makes for a quick release if necessary, but it’s also quite secure.

The bag is great – it’s compact and easy to store, and I love that it actually locks. The padlock would be easy to replace with something a little more secure, but this works for our needs just fine.

Overall, this is a great set and a lot of fun to use. Thank you to EdenFantasys for sending this to me for free to review! If you’d like to have some fun with the Spread ‘Em Bar & Cuff Set, you can pick this one up at EdenFantasys by clicking the widget below.

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Spreader by Pipedream
Material: Neoprene / Metal
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Under Their Thumb

Some time ago, not all that long ago really, I discovered that I enjoyed a harder edge to sex with my husband. I enjoy being submissive in the bedroom, and we now have a pretty full accoutrement of bondage items. I love to be tied up with cuffs, rope, or anything really, even nothing while pretending I am or following orders during our escapades. I’ve also found a bit of pain adds to the pleasure we both get. I enjoy reading erotica about these types of situations as well, so I selected Pleasure Bound (True Bondage Stories) as my November selection from the Sexis Naked Reader Book Club.

Pleasure Bound is an oversized paperback with a glossy cover. It was published in 2009 by Cleis Press and contains 23 stories in 185 pages, as well as an introduction, About the Authors, and About the Editor sections. This collection is edited by Alison Tyler, who has edited several collections as well as written a lot of erotic stories, many of which I’ve really enjoyed.

Alison, a prolific writer and editor, explains in the introduction that the stories in this collection are all based on the contributing authors’ encounters. While names have been changed, and some of the experiences added to or deleted from, the stories are based on their experiences and so really ring “real.”

The stories here range in length and subject. In most of the stories it’s the woman who’s submissive to a man, but a few feature these roles reversed and one story is about a homosexual man. All of the stories are well written, but they vary on the amount of arousal they cause and even knowing they are based in reality, you may not find them engaging or appealing to your sexual interests. Some of the tales are more extreme than others in the acts portrayed, although for me that didn’t affect the eroticism of them, and in fact enhanced it.

Some of the real standouts in this collection for me include:

“The Visit” by A. D. R. Forte  She takes a bus to see him instead of a plane, so she can arrive uncluttered and the way she was when she last saw him. He picks her up and takes her to his workplace, a bowling alley, where she’ll find out if she’s still “his cunt.” This story was particularly arousing, and the sex rough and hot.

“A Campfire Story” by Kristina Wright She doesn’t camp. Hates it, in fact. He brings her on her first camping trip, and she’s tired, unhappy, and resentful when he falls asleep. She finds the sleeping bag a great way to restrain and tease him mercilessly, and she discovers that camping might not be so bad at all. I really enjoyed this story, as I really could relate to the characters. I don’t think anything could be much worse than camping, but if we ever go I intend to play out this scenario.

“Do I Look Like I’m Joking?” by Annette Miller  With her husband being a lover of bondage, leather, and rope, a wife loves being restrained and having kinky sex at home. She’s only ever given him head at the theater, so the thought of being tied up in a theater and made to come scares her, but she goes along for a wet and erotic public experience. This story was truly hot, and something that would be fun to reenact, in a dangerous way.

“King of the Road” by Bella Dean  Chad presents Donna with a motorcycle, and she knows this can’t be good. How bad it can be, and how exhilarating when she obeys is something Donna finds out. This is something I’d never have the guts to do, but the story is incredibly erotic and arousing.

“Tears of All Kinds” by Tess Danesi  Tess visits Victor at a hotel, and he doesn’t waste any time tying her down to a table and bringing out the razor blades. It’s an encounter filled with fear, tension, and fucking, intererrupted by the inevitable. This story is probably the most tense, yet most arousing story in the book. It doesn’t involve Dar (a frequent character in Tess’s stories), but it’s incredibly well written and hot

If you haven’t read this type of erotica before or don’t practice a bit of bondage in your own life, you might find the milder stories in Pleasure Bound appealing. Or you may be surprised by how much the harder stories turn you on. For myself, I much preferred the ones where the woman was submissive rather than dominant, and there were a few that I though would be fun to play out.

Join the Sexis Naked Reader Book Club on the EdenFantasys forums on November 30, 2010, when Bottoms Up and Pleasure Bound will be discussed with host Kristina Wright. If you’d like to pick up your own copy of Pleasure Bound, you can get your copy at EdenFantasys by clicking the widget below.

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Book by Various Authors
Format: Paperback
Publisher: Cleis Press Inc.
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer.

This product was provided to me for free in exchange for an unbiased review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.