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TMI Tuesday: The Psychology Of Sex

Photo of a man and woman in bed

Edouard-Henri Avril, Public Domain via Wikimedia Commons

1. For you, can sex be separated from love?
Yes, I think they can be separate.

2. Can sex be separated from caring?
I think it’s possible, although I couldn’t separate it this way.

3. Men: Does sex seem to be something that you can never get enough of and are constantly seeking or thinking about?
Ok, I’m not a man, but I’m going to answer this one – yes.

4. Women: Is sex secondary to intimacy, physical closeness, and commitment?
I don’t think it’s always secondary – sometimes it’s primary and is more important than the others.

5. Who is more discriminating in choosing sexual partners–you or your significant other?
I really don’t know how to answer that – I would guess me?

Bonus: Who is more likely to take on additional sexual partners, you or your significant other?
If it were likely at all, I’d have to say I’d be more likely.

 

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Wicked Wednesday: Black & White

picture of a woman and man in black and white lying naked under a tree.

Salvador Viniegra [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

My love life isn’t black and white
(Are most people’s this way?)
It’s nuanced, and it covers
more than 50 shades of grey.

Sometimes I’m rather kinky
and dressed up in tight black leather,
I want to feel your paddle hit or
sometimes a long feather.

Tied down and spread, I’m open for
your tongue against my clit,
The thrusting of your hard cock
thrills me more than I’ll admit.

Sometimes I want to be alone
so I can masturbate.
And whether that’s with toys or not
is not up for debate.

I want to fuck myself as only
I know how to do,
And make myself cum rapidly
Or slowly (love that too).

Sometimes I want to make love
all the day and all the night,
To wrap your arms around me,
Snuggling close so it feels right.

I want to love you gently and
then ride you till you we cum,
To keep you close beside me
Till as one we do become.

Add into all this feelings
That I have and can’t control,
They batter at my mind and
try to rip apart my soul.

I want to share the love I feel
With those that love me too,
And share it in the open
Let that love widen and break through.

 

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TMI Tuesday: Sex On The Brain

Berlin sex xhop picture with lit Sex sign in window and toys

By Matt RF Webb (Own work) [CC BY-SA 4.0], via Wikimedia Commons

1. Is a weird “sex face/orgasm face” a total deal-breaker?
No, not at all. I know my orgasm face is probably pretty weird, so as long as there’s a genuine face, all is good.

2. Do you enjoy having your balls played with (or playing with balls)?
I like to play with them, yes. Especially when giving a blow job.

3. Have you ever hooked-up with somebody based on their proximity to your smartphone location (Tinder, GRINDR, etc)?
No, I’ve never done that.

4. You have some free-time in the workday–blow job or intercourse? (BJ can be giving or receiving).
It would depend on just how isolated I could get at work. I love to give BJs, but I would rather be bent over my desk and fucked from behind.

5. How long after having sex with a new partner do you have to wait before falling asleep?
I would say 15 minutes or so – good, hot sex always makes me tired.

Bonus: What’s the dirtiest or sexiest text message you’ve ever received?
Hmmm…the sexiest was probably just “Let’s fuck. Now.”

 

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Wicked Wednesday: The Dentist

woman wearing a spider gag

By JacklordGOD (Own work) [CC BY-SA 3.0 or GFDL], via Wikimedia Commons

Sheer torture at the dentist….

Playful torture at home….

 

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TMI Tuesday: Questions

Kanamara Festival large pink penis

By stealth3327 (Own work) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

1. Can a penis be too big?
Not that I’ve run into, but I suppose it’s possible.

2. Can a vagina be too tight?
This one I can’t really answer, but I would imagine it’s possible.

3. Does playing with fake tits give you the same satisfaction and response as fondling real breasts?
I don’t know – I’ve never played with fake tits. I will say that playing with dildos is not as satisfying as playing with real penises.

4. Fill in the blank: I prefer _nothing_ over having sex.

5. If a stranger offered you 30 USD to lick your boots or shoes, while you are wearing them, would you accept? If no, how much money would it take for you to accept the offer?
Hmmm…where would I be licking them? on the top? Maybe. On the bottom? No way. It’d take a cool million for me to lick the bottoms.

Bonus: No bonus question today unless you want to share something, anything. Have a great rest of the week.
Hmmm…I’ve been crazy busy lately too, so I don’t have a lot to share. Let’s see…Costa Rica was awesome and I want to go back…I am not fluent in Spanish by any means, but I was able to understand some and speak a little, mas o menos. The sights were absolutely amazing, and it is truly a country that I think everyone should visit. Oh, and I came home with a suitcase full of coffee. Pura Vida!

 

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