I think the biggest mistake I made was not to let loose and enjoy myself every time. Sex is fun, orgasms are fun, and holding back or not reaching satisfaction is a mistake, so when I have sex, I have it to the fullest. I’ve learned that not enjoying myself is silly.
2. What risk (sexual or not) would you take if you knew you would not fail?
I have a few here, a mix of the sexual and not sexual, but I don’t want to jinx them by putting them in print.
3. At what time in your life have you felt most passionate and alive?
That’s a tough one, but I think it would be when I was pregnant for the first time, and having my first child. There’s something about being pregnant that really changes you (not in the obvious way), and the feeling you have when you hear your child cry for the very first time? Priceless.
4. What one piece of advice about sex would you offer the virgin you?
I’d say to not be afraid to experiment and enjoy myself, and know that orgasms can be powerfully wonderful things.
5. What are you avoiding?
Hmm…a lot of things, I suppose. But if I put them here, I wouldn’t be avoiding them any more, now would I?
6. By what age should you know what you want to do with your life?
I think this can be so volatile that there’s never an exact age. Or even one age. I think that you should have a direction in mind by the time you’re 18 and getting out on your own, but to always be open to the idea that things can change, and what you wanted to do before might not be what you want to do now.
Bonus: Do you think you’ve experienced true intimacy in a relationship?
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