I always make New Year’s Resolutions – keeping them is another matter. Last year I resolved to post more often on my blog, to become better organized, and to get in better shape.
Posting more: I did make this one – it took me until June, but with no nighttime job on my hands, I had time to work on blog posts and actually post 2-3x a week. it helped that I found the awesome TMI Tuesday, and also Kink Of The Week! This year I want to keep that up, and maybe post a bit more.
Better organized? Excuse me while I clean up the coffee I just spit all over my keyboard. There … all cleaned up. I suppose “better” is quite a subjective term, but I failed pretty miserably here. I think this is destined to be on my list every year. I’m not sure why this is so hard for me to do, but I really need to.
Better shape? I didn’t do so well here, either. I wasn’t doing bad originally, but some medical issues prevented me from getting where I wanted to be. Yes, this one will be going on next year’s list as well.
2. What was your favorite TMI Tuesday list of questions from 2013? Why? (Give date and title)
I didn’t start these until July, but of the ones I’ve done, I’d say “Lovers, partners, exes, and…Betty White? A strange mix.” from September 10 was my favorite list of questions.
3. What sexy/sexual things do you hope to experience in 2014–toys, acts, people, events, etc?
Hmmm…well, for one, I want to experience a Sybian. I have a fucking machine (a Red Devil), which I love, but it only does the thrusting (dual penetration at that, although it can be set up to just do single). I can use a wand or other vibe with it for clit stimulation, but there’s something about the Sybian that calls my name. I’d also like to go to a munch, but that one may not be possible. I’m sure there’s more, but those are at the top of my list!
4. This time of year is filled with “Top Lists” and “Best of Lists”. Let’s make a list. What were your Top 3 best sexual experiences in 2013? Go into as little or as much detail as you would like.
Another tough one, as my partner and I are pretty adventurous. Let’s see:
1. Getting fucked by James Deen. Not the real James Deen, of course, but his silicone dildo. I bought it for one specific purpose, which was to use on the fucking machine, and it was quite a night. My partner and I simulated a 4-some, and really the only thing that comes to mind is goddamn, that was good!
2. Giving a gagged blow job. I’ve talked about my oral fixation before, but I’ve always wanted to try a blow job where my mouth was held open during bondage play. I got a really cool open-mouth gag with interchangeable rings, and, appropriately shackled and stimulated, it was pretty mind-blowing, especially with a forced orgasm component added in.
3. Trying out the Stronic Eins. I’d been wanting one, and it was my gift to myself – a “parting gift” so to speak. It’s a lot of fun to use, and even better when my partner uses it on me.
5. What are your hopes, dreams for 2014?
I’m hoping for a healthier and happier year in 2014, both for myself and my family. I’ve been writing a lot, and I’m hoping to get a story or two accepted and published – that would completely make my year!
Bonus: In the coming year, let us all resolve to visit, read, and comment on at least two TMI Tuesday blog posts a week that are posted by our fellow TMI Tuesday bloggers.
I’m definitely going to add this to my resolutions! I can be bad about leaving comments, even though I read a lot, but this year I’m going to comment on what I read.
Happy New Year, everyone!