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Open and Alert

I really like the Scandal line from Cal Exotics. The twenty items in this collection are all stylish in red and black, and mix and match wonderfully. This month, as part of Cal Exotics’ Sexpert program, I received the Scandal Open Mouth Gag With Clamps for free to review.

collarboxThe Scandal Open Mouth Gag with Clamps comes in a large cardboard box, with a picture of the product on the front and back, each picture showing a different way it can be used. The back of the box also contains product information in several languages. Inside the box are the gag, clamps on chains (the chains protected by wrapping), and an extra ring for the gag.

collarinpackagingThe gag is about ¾” wide. The top half is red with black lacy overlay, while the bottom is velour-like and soft on the skin (the material is polyester). The stitching is secure all around. There are two strap pieces to the gag: the adjustable side, with 8 holes, is about 13 ½” long, and the buckle side (including the buckle) is about 13”.  With 8 The hardware on the straps is nickel-free iron, and the buckles are a nickel-free alloy.

collarclamplinksThe two straps snap around the removable gag ring. This set comes with 2 rings, one nickel-free iron, and the other rubber, both 1 ½” in diameter. The rubber ring is best if you want to be able to close your mouth or aren’t used to the hardness or size of the metal ring. A smaller ring can also be used in place of the rings provided.

With the included rings, the gag can be adjusted from about 19 ½” up to about 23 ½”, so you should be able to get a comfortable fit. Additionally, if you want to remove the gag, it can be dropped down onto the neck as a loose collar.

collarbuckleTwo small D-rings are attached to the gag about 1 ½” away from the ring. These rings are meant to attach the included chained clamps. The chains for the clamps are about 23” long, and are easy to attach and remove from the gag. The attached clamps are about 2 ¼” long, and are made of nickel-free iron. The tips are padded with phthalate free PVC, and the clamps open to about ¾”, so they will work on larger nipples.  Each clamp also has an adjustable screw to change the degree of tightness when the clamp is used.

collarclampThis set is easy to clean. The chains and clamp can be wiped or rinsed off and dried. The gag itself can be cleaned with a damp cloth if necessary, and it can also be washed in a lingerie bag on the gentle cycle in the washer and line dried. The pieces can be stored in the box, but can also easily be stored in a bag or flat in a drawer.

So, Did It Work?
This is a fun set! As I’ve mentioned in previous reviews of the Scandal line, I love the color combination – red and black, for me, is classy and erotic – as it goes with so much of the lingerie I have.  The gag is adjustable, and once we figured out the best angle, it was easy to secure in place.

collaroutofboxI love that this comes with two rings, and that other sizes of rings can be used. While I often think I have a big mouth, the metal 1 ½” ring is just a bit large for me to wear comfortably for long periods of time. Shorter periods I can do, but it’s great to have the option to use a smaller one. The rubber ring I also liked, as it let me close my mouth when I needed to, when the play wasn’t as rough.  This was easy to use as a loose-fitting collar as well, and no problem to get it back into position as a gag.

I’ve never had a gag that had attachments for anything, but being able to have the nipple clamps attached (or not, as the mood strikes) is something else I like about this set. The chains aren’t too heavy to make wearing it uncomfortable, and I particularly like that the clamps can be spread wide to accommodate my nipples – I often have trouble with clams on sets because they are too shallow or don’t open wide enough for me to use.  These were comfortable to wear for long periods of time, stimulating, and, since they’re detachable, I can use them with other collars.

Thank you to Cal Exotics for sending me the Scandal Open Mouth Gag With Clamps to review! This is a great addition to the Scandal line, which includes a Hogtie Set, Collar With Leash, Bed Restraints, and many more pieces, and it’s one I’d recommend if you like open-mouth gags and also enjoy using nipple clamps. You can check out this Gag/Clamp combo and other Scandal items at SheVibe by clicking the widget below.

This product was provided to me for free in exchange for an unbiased review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

No Restrictions

I like reading mysteries, adventure, and of course erotica, and I’m always on the search for something new. I enjoyed reading both The Slave Factory and The Slave Factory: Exposed! by I. M. Telling last year, so I was excited to learn that he had released a third book – The Slave Factory: Total Power Exchange – in the series.  The author provided me a copy of this book for free in exchange for this review.

TheSlaveFactoryTPE CoverThe Slave Factory: Total Power Exchange is the third book in the Slave Factory Trilogy by I. M. Telling, and was published in December 2013. It’s 362 pages, and is available in several formats, including paperback, Kindle, and pdf versions.

Please note: some spoilers can be found below.

The Slave Factory introduced a group of strangers: Tonya, Jim and Sheila, Anne, Bruce, and Jerome, who became more than friends when they underwent training at the Academy to become contracted slaves in exchange for a large amount of money, finally becoming auctioned to the highest bidder before the Headmaster claimed the most submissive as his own.  The Slave Factory: Exposed! continued the story, with Tonya kidnaped by the sadistic Mr. Green and the Academy raided by the FBI, and Fitzpatrick stepped up to control the situation and again become a part of Per il Placere del Maestro.

The Slave Factory: Total Power Exchange begins 3 years after book two ends, and the story takes place both in the United States and Italy.  Fitzpatrick McMullen and his wife, former slave Tonya, live in Florida. Now that Fitzpatrick is part of the Council of Per il piacere del Maestro, he prepares to fly to Rome to meet with the Supreme Grand Master, leaving Tonya to take care of herself while he’s away. He’s going on a journey of submission, with hopes of bringing changes to the organization spurred on by the death of one he called a friend, but Fitzpatrick doesn’t know that this trip will place him at odds with Bishop, the heir apparent to the Supreme Grand Master.

During his meeting with the leader of Per il piacere del Maestro, Fitzpatrick is confronted with his ideas of changing the company as well as decisions he’s had to make since he came back to the organization.  When he leaves, he learns of Lord Bishop’s desire to have him kidnaped and disposed of by Thomas, who has been doing Bishop’s dirty work. He puts his trust in Thomas, and is taken into Bishop’s clutches, with no one except Lord Bishop, Thomas, and Wanda aware of where he’s being held.

Fitzpatrick’s friends gather to help rescue him from impending death: Tonya, Bruce, with his new playmates Bonnie and Billy, Head Mistress Katherine and Mistress Sheila, Jim (Shiela’s estranged husband), Wanda and Thomas, and some unexpected help from the FBI.

Tonya’s plan to save her beloved is risky, and when the group journeys to Rome, she takes Bishop as her master to help free Fitzpatrick before it’s too late. But can this group of friends rescue him in time, or will Tonya and Fitzpatrick be separated forever by the conniving Bishop?

Like the second book in the trilogy, The Slave Factory: Total Power Exchange focuses much more on the adventure taking place rather than sex, but the sex scenes that are included, particularly with Tonya, are riveting and arousing. We also find out some of what’s been going on with the other major players in the story. Although the first book in the series is my favorite, this is a good read, and I’d recommend it.

Thank you to I. M. Telling for sending me a copy of The Slave Factory: Total Power Exchange for free to review! If you’d like to read the third and final book in this series, or read them all, you can pick up a copy on Amazon.

This book was provided to me for free in exchange for an unbiased review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

TMI Tuesday: Odds & Ends

By Tamorlan (Own work) [CC-BY-3.0], via Wikimedia Commons

By Tamorlan (Own work) [CC-BY-3.0], via Wikimedia Commons

1. How addicted are you? You are in a rush, there is no time to make your morning coffee or stop to buy it. However, you can save time and get your “energy high” by brushing your teeth with a caffeine-infused toothbrush. Would you buy and use this product? Why or why not?
Hmmm….possibly. It’s not just the caffeine I crave in the morning. Or that I’m addicted to. I love the smell of fresh-brewed coffee. And I love the taste of it as well. It’s really got to be the combination of the two, with a splash of cream and a packet of Splenda.  Now, if they could inject the coffee directly into my bloodstream? Maybe. I suppose, since I have to brush my teeth first thing in the morning, that I might as well try this….yeah, I guess I am that addicted. And surely there’d be enough time to make and/or stop to get coffee…there is no rush so great that coffee can be forsaken.

2. You made a sex list of all the things you’d like to do but haven’t done. The list was lost and discovered by your boss at work. He/she ask if they can help you tick a few items off the list. What do you say?
It depends on how they’d help. I wouldn’t be having any kind of sex with them, but if they could facilitate some of the things on my list, I might just take them up on it.

3. Sex around the house. Have you ever been bent over the kitchen counter or bent a lover over the kitchen counter and fucked? What did you like most about it? What did you like least?
Where haven’t I been fucked in my house? That’s one of the first things we did when we bought our current home – fucked in every room to “christen” it.  I have been bent over the kitchen counter and fucked from behind….a few times, to be sure. I like it for several reasons: I’ve got a great view out the window, it’s kind of kinky, and it always seems spontaneous in the kitchen. Plus, it’s easy to grab something to drink afterwards when I’m parched. What I like least is when the floor’s been recently waxed, and I’m slipping all over the surface.

4. Sexting…How do you really feel about it?
a. Meh? Not my thing.
b. Can take it or leave it, usually have to be begged to do it
c. I like it, it’s like foreplay.
d. Love it! I’m always sending naughty notes and steamy pics.
e. What’s your number? I have a daily sexting list, wanna sign up?

I’ll say a combination of c and d. It’s a lot like foreplay, whether it’s just sending the explicit messages, or including pictures to go along. I won’t say I’m always doing it, but there are times I could spend the better part of the day sexting back and forth. And I do send some steamy pictures.

5. What do you love to sniff? Why?
A lot of things, really. I love to sniff flowers, particularly roses….their scent is fantastic. I love to sniff clean laundry, especially when it’s warm and fresh out of the dryer. I love to sniff my lover’s skin. And often I just like to sniff the outside air.

Bonus: What is it? Explain how you would use it.cockcage
This is a CBT device, if I’m not mistaken, called the Five Gates of Hell. I think one of the rings goes over a guy’s balls, and the others encircle his cock.
Although, it could be an expander for my closet hangers, so I could hang 4 more items from a single hanger, and theoretically save closet space…or it could hang on my wall and hold necklaces.

 

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Kink Of The Week: Maschalagnia

Eugène Emmanuel Amaury Duval [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

Eugène Emmanuel Amaury Duval [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

Armpits…everyone has them. I’ve never considered them particularly erotic, and the term maschalagnia (armpit fetishism) was new to me. I don’t think about them much, but they do make a good place to warm your hands on an ice-cold day.

My husband’s armpits have quite a bit of hair, and they are also probably the most ticklish place on his body. He absolutely hates if I touch him there. Mine are shaved every day, and they’re smooth…and also a bit ticklish if I’m in the right mood.

I have seen porn where the armpit is used, and a cock (or two) slides into and out of that area. Typically this is in gang bangs, and there’s no other place they can really use for stimulation, as everything’s occupied. Well, I suppose there’s the back of the knees, if they’re bent, but that would be a tricky position. Would I let a cock fuck my armpit? Maybe…but there are a lot of other places I’d rather it be.

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Kink Of The Week: Pinching

By Sejenade (Own work) [CC-BY-SA-3.0], via Wikimedia Commons

By Sejenade (Own work) [CC-BY-SA-3.0], via Wikimedia Commons

I hate being pinched. I remember when I was younger, and I’d forgot to wear green on St. Patrick’s day one year. People tried to pinch me all day long, and it hurt. A good way to remember to wear green, but it also fostered my hatred for pinching.

There’s something about it that I find painful, worse than almost anything else. I’ve only ever been pinched maliciously, and it hurts everywhere, except my earlobes. I’ve never found it fun, or teasing – and I won’t let my husband do it during foreplay or sex. I especially dislike being pinched on my ass, whether clothed or not, and it doesn’t matter if it’s more of a full-hand pinch or a finger pinch.

Clothespins and clamps I consider a bit different, maybe because I only have used them on my nipples, although I do find them awfully painful. It’s just something about the finger pinch that I don’t enjoy.

I’ll take anything over pinching…and I don’t like to pinch others, either. I’ve never had anyone ask me to be pinched, and it’s not something my husband’s into….thankfully.

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