TMI Tuesday: Sex, Seriously?

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2. Which of these rules would you follow if your lover had to have it followed in order to be aroused:?
a. wear socks will having sex?
b. have the lights on during sex?
c. have the TV playing, volume up while having sex?
d. the room must be in complete darkness to have sex
I think b), c,) and d) would be the easiest to follow. I don’t mind having the lights on during sex at all, and it’s also fine if it’s totally dark…although i like having the lights on better.  I don’t mind having the TV on during sex either…and preferably porn on the TV. It can be a little weird to have a comedian or comedy show on, though, as if I get distracted by listening I can start laughing out loud, and totally kill the mood. I would do a) if I had to, but wearing nothing but socks is a bit too reminiscent of the gynecologist’s office…plus, it covers up toes that like to be sucked on.

3. You must plan an evening of sex with your lover. Tell us what you’ve planned for the evening.
Hmmm…I would start by planning some food for bed – fresh cut strawberries or blueberries, and a nice bottle of chilled wine. A good way to start out would be to strip for him, and then we could feed each other berries and wine before I’d suck his cock. I’d make him cum a time or two with lots of attention to his shaft and balls, and then I’d have him fuck me from behind while we looked at each other in the mirror in front of us. After we came, I’d plan a nice bath with some bubbles and candles, and some slippery sex in the tub.

4. Rule: If one of you is in the mood for sex and the other is not, you give the other 24 hours to ‘get in the mood’ before masturbating. Would this work in for you or in your relationship–why or why not?
That’s an interesting idea, but I don’t think so. I think if one of us wants sex and the other doesn’t, masturbating is fine. And after 24 hours, if they still weren’t in the mood, it’d be masturbation time again. Win, win!

5. Apparently, even though it is the year 2016, some folks still have a “number” that delineates another person from being normal and liking sex versus being promiscuous. What is THAT number for you? According to a recent U.K. report more than 15 sexual conquests for a man can be off-putting, while more that 14 sexual encounters for a woman may give a potential suitor pause.
Those are some interesting numbers. I don’t know what that number is for me – maybe 69?

Bonus: How was your weekend?
It could have been better. I was sick at the end of the week, so I spent quite a bit of time resting in bed. Which wasn’t so bad, really.

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