TMI Tuesday: Sexuality – Express Yourself

1. Can you tell when your lover is close to having an orgasm? How can you tell? What are the signs?
I can tell. Even if he didn’t say “I’m cumming!”, I can tell. If we’re fucking when he’s cumming, his cock feels different, and twitches before he cums. If we’re facing each other, the muscles in his neck stand out, and the look on his face is rather priceless. If I’m sucking his cock, it has little tremors that run through it right before he erupts.

2. Ladies have you ever seen YOUR g-spot? Men have you actually seen the g-spot?
Nope – I can’t say I ever have.

3. Which sexual position do you find most stimulating?
a. missionary
b. woman on top, facing man
c. doggy style
d. other – tell us about it
I love to fuck in doggy style. I think it allows him to get the deepest penetration, and I love to feel his balls slap into and tease my clit while his hands grab and control my hips.

4. When you orgasm, are you:
a. silent
b. make a little noise
c. yell out!
It’s c – I’m a total screamer. If it were truly possible to wake the dead, my screams would have them rising from the graveyard. We tend to use some sort of gag, or my partner muffles my screams with his hand, because I’m always worried the neighbors will call the police if they hear me through an open window!

5. A lover orgasms quickly, way before you are even close to having an orgasm. Do you stop the sex once he/she has had an orgasm or do you continue sexual play so you can orgasm too?
I continue to play. My partner helps me orgasm if they do before I do, so that we’re both satisfied when we’re done. If I cum first, which is rare but does happen, I make sure he climaxes as well.

Bonus: On average, when you masturbate how long does it take to reach orgasm?
a. Less than 3 minutes
b. 3 – 5 minutes
c. 5 – 10 minutes
d. more than 10 minutes
Typically d. I don’t like to rush things. A first orgasm can take 30+ minutes for me, depending on a variety of things. Now, after the first one, all bets are off – I can orgasm again in under a minute for the second and ones following.