Category Archives: TMI Tuesday

By Luigi Schiavonetti (†1810) (Robert Blair: “The Grave, A Poem”. London 1808) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

2. Let’s talk about sex baby, let’s talk about how I would love to suck your cock and then feel you deep inside me .
3. Vibrators are all about putting pleasure back into sex.

4. Excessive use of pornography can distort expectations of what sex in real life should or could be like.?
a. True
b. False
I think mostly b.
Care to expound?
I suppose a lot of it depends on what you’re watching…and just what “excessive” is…but I think it can allow you to vicariously live your fantasies, especially those you’d never really do. For example, I love to watch dp porn, but that’s not anything I expect to happen in real life. The key word there is “expect.”

5. A good lube boosts my sexual performance.  Multiple orgasms boost my sexual enjoyment.

Bonus:  What is the last way that you experienced sexual pleasure?
That would be with my favorite wand vibrator, which is waterproof, and cumming like crazy in the bath.

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Louis-Jean-François Lagrenée [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

1. You want to make love, but your partner says they’re too tired:
A. You’re annoyed and frustrated.
B. It’s a bummer, but you understand they’ve had a long day.
C. You give your partner an awkwardly long hug and say you’re happy to wait. It’s better when you’re both into it.
D. You get nervous and worried. Maybe your partner is cheating or doesn’t think you’re attractive anymore.
B. We all have long days – and there’s no reason I can’t masturbate and take care of myself if need be.

2. Who is having better sex? You or your best friends?
A. I am, obviously.
B. We don’t talk about our sex lives. Ever.
C. We all have our good times and bad times. We don’t usually compare.
D. My friends have all the good sex. I can’t keep up.
C. I talk about sex with my best friend, but we don’t really compare, per se.

3. How do you feel right after sex?
A. Sweaty and ready to shower. A little gross.
B. Satisfied and energized. Ready to take on the world.
C. Calm and happy, falling asleep.
D. A bit let down and tired.
Hmmm…it depends. Usually C, I think, especially if I’ve cum a few times. But I also do like to take a shower after.

4. Which is better? Being a man or woman?
A. Men have it so much easier?
B. Women have it so much easier
C. I’m having too much fun being me to worry about it.?
D. Is there really much of a difference?
I don’t know, honestly. I think men and women have it easier with different things.

5. You and your partner had sex that wasn’t that good. You:
A. Don’t say anything. Everyone has an off day.?
B. Complain or drop hints that things better improve.?
C. Consider whether you should break up. Sex is the glue to a good relationship.
D. Discuss it immediately and see if there is anything you should be doing differently.
Usually A. It’ll probably be obvious to both of us that it wasn’t that great. And if something’s really off, we’d probably talk about it during sex and not afterwards.

6. What advice do you wish you had when you started having sex?
A. Sex is a great thing–healthy and fun.?
B. A proper tour of the reproductive parts as errogenous zones and not from a biology point of view. Bodies are really strange and getting to know them can be awkward.?
C. Sex is a beautiful thing but be careful to protect your body from STD’s and pregnancy or you won’t have as much fun.?
D. Enjoy sex while you can, because it gets worse as you get older.
I think A. When I grew up, sex ed was weird in school (and certainly nothing as explicit as what they’re teaching now). I don’t mean explicit in a bad way – I think it’s great what they are willing to talk about in class, and thankful that my kids don’t hesitate to ask me about anything. But when I had it in school, it was just the bare biology, and no one ever said that it would be fun, or healthy, or good at all for that matter.

Bonus: What will your sex life be like when you’re 70 years old?
A. I can’t imagine having sex when I get wrinkly.?
B. Probably a little sex here and there.?
C. Hopefully my years of knowledge and hard work in the bedroom will pay off when I am having good sex in my 70’s.
Well, definitely C. I think it will be different, and maybe not quite so crazy and energetic (although there’s hope), but still fun and something I’ll want to do.

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By Karol Miller (1835 – 1920) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

2. How do you ask someone out??
I think you just ask them – in person, not over text, and not over the phone.

3. When you think about sex, what do you think about most?
I think about a lot of things equally…cunnilingus, giving a blow job, and just plain fucking.

4. Name two things that you appreciate about your current relationship.?
That I feel loved, and that we’re able to talk about things.

5. Name three things that most excite your imagination.
I think viewing suggestive photos, reading erotic stories, and watching good porn (that’s porn without a plot).

Bonus: If you had three wishes that would come true, what would they be?
Hmmm…to never have to worry about money, to have the people I love get along, and to spend the time I need with those I love.

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2. Which of these rules would you follow if your lover had to have it followed in order to be aroused:?
a. wear socks will having sex?
b. have the lights on during sex?
c. have the TV playing, volume up while having sex?
d. the room must be in complete darkness to have sex
I think b), c,) and d) would be the easiest to follow. I don’t mind having the lights on during sex at all, and it’s also fine if it’s totally dark…although i like having the lights on better.  I don’t mind having the TV on during sex either…and preferably porn on the TV. It can be a little weird to have a comedian or comedy show on, though, as if I get distracted by listening I can start laughing out loud, and totally kill the mood. I would do a) if I had to, but wearing nothing but socks is a bit too reminiscent of the gynecologist’s office…plus, it covers up toes that like to be sucked on.

3. You must plan an evening of sex with your lover. Tell us what you’ve planned for the evening.
Hmmm…I would start by planning some food for bed – fresh cut strawberries or blueberries, and a nice bottle of chilled wine. A good way to start out would be to strip for him, and then we could feed each other berries and wine before I’d suck his cock. I’d make him cum a time or two with lots of attention to his shaft and balls, and then I’d have him fuck me from behind while we looked at each other in the mirror in front of us. After we came, I’d plan a nice bath with some bubbles and candles, and some slippery sex in the tub.

4. Rule: If one of you is in the mood for sex and the other is not, you give the other 24 hours to ‘get in the mood’ before masturbating. Would this work in for you or in your relationship–why or why not?
That’s an interesting idea, but I don’t think so. I think if one of us wants sex and the other doesn’t, masturbating is fine. And after 24 hours, if they still weren’t in the mood, it’d be masturbation time again. Win, win!

5. Apparently, even though it is the year 2016, some folks still have a “number” that delineates another person from being normal and liking sex versus being promiscuous. What is THAT number for you? According to a recent U.K. report more than 15 sexual conquests for a man can be off-putting, while more that 14 sexual encounters for a woman may give a potential suitor pause.
Those are some interesting numbers. I don’t know what that number is for me – maybe 69?

Bonus: How was your weekend?
It could have been better. I was sick at the end of the week, so I spent quite a bit of time resting in bed. Which wasn’t so bad, really.

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