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Shackles of Love

Having recently tried a pair of handcuffs (albeit plushy ones), my husband and I decided they were kind of fun. He wanted to try a different kind, so I let him do the browsing this time. What he came up with were the delightfully decadent Metal Wrist and Ankle Cuffs from EdenFantasys.

These cuffs come in a cardboard box with a picture of a topless woman wearing them. The back of the box has detailed product information on how to use the cuffs. Inside the box are the set of cuffs and four keys, two for the wrist cuffs and two for the ankle cuffs.

The cuffs are made of nickel-plated steel and are quite heavy. The set consists of 2 wrist cuffs and 2 ankle cuffs, all connected by chain. All the pieces are bright and shiny.

The wrist cuffs have 4” of chain connecting them. Each has a stop bar, which when up allows the cuff to be tightened and when down locks the cuff from moving in either direction. The cuffs have a quick release in case you lose the key, which can be activated by pressing up on the lever next to the keyhole. To open with the key, turn it clockwise 1/4 of a turn.

The ankle cuffs have a bit more range. They are connected by a 17 1/2″ chain so you can walk, or shuffle along, but you can’t move very fast. These cuffs can be locked singly or doubly. They are single locked by pressing the cuff down on the ankle and ratcheting them closed as tight as desired. To lock them double, the key can be used to press the plunger on the cuff’s top edge. This double locking prevents them from being tightened or loosened.

Unlike the wrist cuffs, the ankle cuffs don’t have a quick release, so you’ll want to make sure you don’t lose the keys on these! If double locked, the key must be turned 1/4 counterclockwise to release the double lock, then 1/4 turn clockwise to open them. If single locked, the key just needs to be turned 1/4 of a turn clockwise.

The wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs are connected by an 18” chain which is attached in the center of the connecting chain for each pair. Depending on your height, this chain will long enough to allow you to stand with your arms straight down by your side, but you won’t be able to raise your arms much at all. If you’re taller, you may find that you won’t be able to stand upright at all.

The cuffs and chains are made from metal, so they are non-porous and easy to clean. Wiping with a damp cloth and then drying should be sufficient to clean these. They can be lubricated with light oil if needed to keep them opening and closing smoothly.

So, Did They Work? We had a lot of fun with these. They were a bit more intimidating than plain wrist cuffs, and I could really feel the weight of the metal. I’m 5’7”, and I was able to stand fairly comfortably upright with these on. If you’re taller and want to be able to stand up, you’ll want to play with making the connecting chain longer or replacing it completely. I could move my arms up an inch or so, but that was all I could manage. When my wrists were cuffed from behind it was a bit more awkward to move, and it made me feel a lot more helpless. The metal is hard on the skin, and I found it left marks if my husband put them on too tight or I struggled too much.

We found these to be fun as well by cuffing my ankles and then looping the connecting chain around a table leg or pillar before cuffing my wrists.  This was a lot more uncomfortable, but made for some interesting play time.

One thing I would have liked is if the ankle cuffs had a quick release. While the handcuffs can be used without a key, you’ll be in trouble if you lose the key for the ankles. We separated our keys and put them in what we hope are safe locations so we’ll be able to release the ankle cuffs when needed. You also want to be careful with the keys and not use too much pressure so the key doesn’t snap off in the lock.

I don’t think these are something we’ll use all of the time, but they are a good addition to our toy box. I purchased mine at EdenFantasys. If you’d like to get some shackles of your own, you can get yours by clicking the widget below.

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Wrist and ankle cuffs by California Exotic
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Kute and Kinky

While I’m amassing quite a collection of cuffs, mostly leather, I don’t have a lot of regular handcuffs.  It’s not that metal cuffs don’t appeal to me, but they are not as comfortable to wear for any length of time.  When I saw the Pink Fur Handcuffs from Pipedream at EdenFantasys, they looked like they could be fun and comfortable, so I decided that I had to try them. 

 The cuffs come packaged in an easy to open box and are visible through the front.  They look cute and unintimidating.  The back of the box has some general product information.
 The cuffs are standard handcuffs.  They are made of metal and have a ratchet closure.  At their widest (on 1 ratchet) they are 2 3/4″ on the long diameter and 2” on the short diameter, so they will fit a fairly good sized wrist.  They can be ratcheted smaller as needed.  The cuffs can be released by using one of the two included keys.  They can also be opened if you lose the keys by using the quick release lever.  This lever is located right by the keyhole – simply press it up and hold it to open the cuffs.  The handcuffs are connected by a 2” chain which seems securely attached to each cuff and is short enough not to allow your hands to move much at all.

The faux fur tube is a pretty, light pink.  It’s 7” long and can be slipped entirely off  if you want to use just the metal cuffs.  You can also use it as a pattern if you want to make your own fur tubes in different colors.  The fur provides some cushioning against your wrists when the cuffs are on, but the tubes are thin and the metal can still be felt through the fur.  It does eliminate the metal chafing or cutting into your wrists.

The metal cuffs are easy to clean.  They can be wiped with a damp cloth if necessary and dried.  The fur can be removed and washed in a laundry bag in the washer and dried on low in the dryer.

So, Do They Work?  They do, although they’re not nearly as comfortable as I expected them to be.  The fur is pretty thin and when my husband tightened these around my wrists I didn’t have as much padding as I thought I would.  They were definitely more comfortable than just metal cuffs, though.  They did keep my hands secured both in front and behind, and my husband was able to open them both with the key and the quick release lever.  I’m glad they have this feature – I can just imagine the key getting lost.
I liked that the fur came all the way off.  This way I can replace it with a color and thickness of my choosing, so the cuffs will be a matching accessory to our play than just with pink.
Overall these cuffs were fun and a bit of a change  to our bondage play.  I purchased mine at EdenFantasys, and if you’d like to try a pair for yourself, you can buy these by clicking on the widget below.

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Handcuffs by Pipedream
Material: Metal / Faux fur
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Blinded by Beauty

I’m enamored with the Spartacus Divinity collection. The collar and cuff sets (both ankle and wrist) are so lovely together.
Leather blindfold with faux fur inner lining and elastic band to adjust the blindfold.Fax fur lined leather collar.Leather wrist cuffs with faux fur lining and velcro closures.Leather ankle cuffs with faux fur lining and velcro closures.
I don’t wear blindfolds a lot, but sometimes they’re fun for our sensory play or bondage scenarios. I decided to complete my set and get the Spartacus Divinity Blindfold from EdenFantasys.

The Divinity Blindfold comes in easy-to-open packaging, and is visible through the front. The blindfold is folded in half, but comes out of the case and flattens out easily, with minimal creasing over the nose. It has a light, pleasant leather smell.

The blindfold is made of white fine-grained leather, and it looks pretty and feminine. The leather piece is 8” wide from end to end, with 3 1/4″ eye covers. It narrows to 1 1/2″ over the nose. A cluster of three dark blue jewels, the same as on the cuffs and collar, are set in a cluster on the right side. These jewels are set in metal, which does have a nickel coating. The front has blue straight stitching that runs around the outside about 1/8” from the edge of the leather and gives the blindfold an attractive color accent. The stitches are even and seem secure.

The back of the leather is lined with baby blue faux fur, which is soft and smooth on the skin. The stitching can be seen a bit around the edges of the fur, but it is not overly noticeable or detracting.

The Divinity Blindfold is held on to your head by a white elastic band, which is 3/4″ wide and about 14” long. It’s very stretchy, and should expand to fit most head sizes comfortably.

If necessary, the blindfold is easy to clean. The leather can be spot cleaned with a damp, not wet cloth, and a leather cleaner can be used for conditioning. The faux fur can be cleaned with soap and water and blotted dry, taking care not to saturate the fur or the leather. The blindfold is best stored flat.

So, Did It Work? Most definitely! This blindfold really completed the look I was going for with the Divinity set. It was comfortable to wear, fit my face well, and I really liked the feel of the fur against my face and closed eyes. I tried it with my eyes open and I wasn’t able to see anything under the eye pads, but this isn’t something I’d wear with my eyes open underneath. The only trouble I had was if I moved my head a lot while lying on my back. This tended to move the elastic out of place and cause the blindfold to slip up. This is a well-made piece, and I expect to use it for a long time to come.

I purchased the Divinity Blindfold from EdenFantasys. If you’d like to purchase one for yourself, you can get one by clicking the widget below.

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Blindfold by Spartacus
Material: Leather
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This product was purchased from EdenFantasys with no expectation of review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

Heavenly Restraint

Recently I purchased the Spartacus Divinity Wrist Cuffs. I already had the Divinity collar, and the wrist cuffs and collar looked divine together. I decided I wanted the complete set, so I purchased the Divinity Ankle Cuffs from EdenFantasys.

The ankle cuffs are simply packaged andcome in a clear plastic clamshell case which is easy to open. The cuffs are rolled closed and visible through the front of the box. The back insert has some product information in four languages.

These cuffs have a light leather scent, clean and crisp. They are made of a supple, flexible, fine-grained white leather and are simply beautiful – so different looking than the standard black!

The cuffs consist of a bottom and top strap. The bottom, which is the actual cuff, is 2” wide and 10 3/4″ long. It is backed with light blue faux fur which is soft to stroke and provides a comfortable sensation on the skin. The rivets can’t be felt under the fur. The stitching is a dark blue straight stitch which is even and secure. It is also not visible on the back unless you spread the faux fur and look.

The top strap is 13 1/2″ long and 1” wide, and is attached to the cuff by 4 rivets. Between these rivets is a 1 1/2” D-ring for connecting the cuffs to a chain, spreader bar, or other apparatus. Two silver rivets also hold the metal end piece through which the Velcro threads. The rivets have a coating that does contain nickel. On each side of the rivets is a dark blue gem set in silver.

The top strap is double sided and stitched with dark blue on the top and white on the bottom. One end has a 1” Velcro piece. A 3” long strip of Velcro is sewn with white thread to the top strap about 2 1/2″ away, and this end Velcro piece attaches to it.

The Divinity Ankle Cuffs, unlike the wrist cuffs, are easy to put on, even by yourself. They run a bit small for ankle cuffs, so if your ankles are larger than about 10 1/2″ (maximum) they will be too tight for you to use. The 1” piece of Velcro needs to connect to the backing Velcro almost entirely, or the cuffs can be popped off by flexing and rolling the ankles. At their largest, the cuffs won’t overlap.

These cuffs are easy to care for. The leather can be spot cleaned with a damp cloth, making sure not to soak or overly wet it. If necessary, a leather cleaner can be used to keep the cuffs in good condition. The fur can be spot cleaned with soap and water and blotted dry. The cuffs can be stored rolled or laid flat in a drawer or chest.

So, Do They Work? I’ve found that while my husband does like red and black, he also likes the softer, more feminine colors on me, and this set really turns him on. The complete set (ankle cuffs, wrist cuffs, collar, and blindfold) looks stunningly hot, feminine yet naughty, when worn with white and blue lingerie or nothing else at all.

I really enjoyed these cuffs. The only real problem I had was making sure the Velcro was securely attached. The first time my husband put them on I was able to pop out of them by flexing my ankle a few times. It wasn’t that I wanted to escape, but with not all of the Velcro connecting it didn’t take me long to get out of them.

I like that these have a fur backing – they are a lot more comfortable to wear than just leather backed cuffs and don’t trap sweat or cause friction on my skin.

We connected these to a variety of leads, as well as a spreader bar or two. When the cuffs were attached to the spreader bar in particular, I wasn’t able to pop them off and they held my ankles securely in place.

As with the wrist cuffs, these cuffs run on the small side. They would be ideal to use as wrist cuffs if you have larger wrists. These cuffs are more suited to moderate to light play than heavy due to the Velcro, but as long as you aren’t pulling and squirming like crazy they should hold up for a session of fun.

The Divinity Ankle Cuffs, as well as the other pieces, are all available at EdenFantasys. I bought mine there, and you can too by clicking on the widget below.

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Ankle cuffs by Spartacus
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Beautiful in Blue and White

The more cuffs I have, the more I seem to want. I’ve decided that it’s a bit redundant to have everything in black – you can only really have so many different designs and styles in the same color. I had obtained the Spartacus Divinity Collar a while ago, and it was such a refreshing color that I decided it was time to add to the set, starting with the Spartacus Divinity Wrist Cuffs from EdenFantasys.

These wrist cuffs come in an easy to open plastic clamshell, with the cuffs rolled and visible through the front. The insert visible through the back of the case gives some general information about the product in 4 languages. The cuffs have a light leather scent right out of the box.

The Divinity Wrist Cuffs are lovely. They are made of white, fine-grained leather and are soft and supple. The actual cuff piece is 2” wide and 9” long. Attached to this is the top strap which is 1” wide and 12” long, and connected to the cuff by 4 silver rivets between which is attached a 1 1/4” D-ring. Two rivets also hold the square metal end loop. Two blue gems set in silver are on each side of the D-ring. The coating on the metal does contain nickel.

The top strap on the cuffs is stitched in dark blue thread on the top side, which is even and secure. It is sewn to another piece of white leather, with white stitching on the underside. The opposite end of this strap has Velcro for closure. Sticky Velcro is a 1” piece at the end. After a 2 1/2″ gap, a 3” strip of Velcro is sewn to the strap for attachment. The Velcro is all securely stitched to the strap with white thread.

The cuff piece is lined on the inside with a light blue faux fur, which is soft to the touch. The stitching is only noticeable in a few places, and it is the same dark blue as the top. The fur covers the rivets and creates a smooth sensation against the skin.

The cuffs can be tricky to put on by yourself, particularly if your wrists are on the larger side. As long as most of the Velcro at the end connects to the Velcro strip the cuffs will stay on through moderate pulling and tugging and won’t pull off. For the Velcro to connect securely the cuff part must overlap. Even when tight on the wrists, the fur keeps them comfortable and prevents chafing. The Velcro also adds the ability for your partner to quickly remove them if necessary.

The Divinity Wrist Cuffs are easy to care for. The leather can be wiped with a damp (not wet) cloth as needed, and a leather cleaner can be used when necessary. The fur can be dampened or spot cleaned. Care should be taken not to soak the leather. The cuffs can be stored flat, or gently rolled.

So, Do They Work? I really love the look of these. The white and blue is a lovely combination and really feminine. Even though the cuffs are wide, they are graceful. They match beautifully with the other pieces in the set (collar, ankle cuffs, and blindfold) and look nice on their own as well.

These cuffs run small – a lot smaller than other wrist cuffs I’ve purchased – so you should be aware if you have larger wrists that they may be too tight. I found that if the sticky Velcro piece wasn’t securely attached (and the cuffs overlapped a bit) that flexing my wrists would cause these to pop off – I could hear the Velcro pulling apart with my motions. Even when I had these on tightly, though, they were comfortable on my skin. The fur lining is very soft and pleasant to wear.  If you think these will be too small, the Ankle Cuffs would be a good option to use.

We had a lot of fun with these! My husband thought the look was erotic when paired with a white mini skirt, blue nipple jewelry and the rest of the set (collar, ankle cuffs, and blindfold), The color combination was heavenly.

I purchased the Divinity Wrist Cuffs from EdenFantasys. If you’re interested in expanding your cuff collection and are in to light to medium play, or just want to accessorize with a different look, these are a great choice. You can purchase these cuffs from EdenFantasys by clicking on the widget below.

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Wrist cuffs by Spartacus
Material: Leather
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This item was purchased from EdenFantasys with no expectation of review. This review conforms to the FTC guidelines.