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Kink Of The Week: Dildos


From left to right: Eleven, Smooth S, Leisure, Fling, Dracula, Cyborg

I love dildos. I’ll admit that I have more vibrators, but there’s just something about dildos that I enjoy. It took me a while to get my first one, but now, for me, they’re like Lay’s potato chips – you can’t fuck just one.


The Tantus Sherbet on the Tantus suction cup

The very first dildo I ever got, and which I still have, was the silicone Tantus Sherbet. It was also the first dildo I ever wrote a review for. Yes, it has a bullet hole, but it works just fine without vibration. Plus, it’s the most beautiful green.

I have a large assortment of silicone dildos, which include all sizes from small to large, the largest being Hoss. Some are beautifully colored – green, pink, black, orange, and blue – while others are flesh tones. Some are rather monstrous as well. Many of the brightly colored ones are realistic in shape, but some are not….and all of the flesh-colored ones are realistic. I do still have some non-silicone realistic dildos that I just can’t get rid of because of their size and how they feel. These are quite detailed, and are molded from real people…quite well endowed porn stars.


Smooth Operator on the stationary bike

Several of the dildos I own have that bullet hole on the bottom, which works well on a suction cup attachment…and using a suction cup adds a whole new dimension for playing with them. Hole or not, they all work well on a fucking machine.

While I do love silicone, I also have a lot of dildos in other materials, including glass, metal, and wood. Most of my glass dildos are colorful, although a few are clear, and they tend to be smaller in girth than all the others. My metal dildos include the Eleven, which is by far the heaviest one I own. I only have two wooden ones: the Smooth S and the Fling, both from NobEssence, and they are two of my favorites. I particularly love the fling, which as a handle…and that comes in pretty handy.


Shane Diesel’s cock

Overall, I prefer grittier dildos and dildos with texture…unless they’re for anal use, where I prefer them thinner and smooth. I like curved ones, as they’re better to hit my g-spot, but straight ones can be quite filling and satisfying as well.

Dildos are great anytime: solo or with my partner, during kink play or regular sex. I don’t consider dildos inherently kinky, although when I’ve got two on the machine thrusting away into me and I’m bound, it probably crosses over that line. But as much as I love them, they’re really no substitute for a flesh and blood cock.


Be sure to click through and read other Kink of the Week posts!

Just A Fling? No, A Genuine Love Affair

The NobEssence Fling (Intrigue)

Or an Intrigue, as this piece by NobEssence is also called.  It’s absolutely beautiful!  I received the Fling for completing my 200th review for EdenFantasys.

I chose the Fling because I love NobEssence toys, and also because of its unique feature: the finger holes in the base.

Finger holes, you ask?  Yes, indeed.  These holes make the Fling easy to hold and easy to control when thrusting.  They’re large enough for most fingers to fit through.

Unlike it’s cousin, the  Ergonomic One Finger, the Fling allows you to have two fingers side-by-side.  Using the holes also keeps the Fling in your (or your partner’s) hand when everything is all slicked up.  Regardless of which way you put your fingers through the holes, it’s comfortable. It’s a simple idea but remarkably effective, and it makes the Fling much easier to thrust and control than many based toys.

flingboxThis is a beautiful light-colored (and fairly lightweight) dildo. It’s handcrafted of bamboo and mine has a nice striped wood grain pattern. Since each NobEssence piece is individually crafted from natural wood, my Fling will look different from any other. It’s covered with a nonporous coating called Lubrosity which is hypoallergenic and phthalates free. It is also water and bacteria resistant as well as completely odorless. This coating makes the Fling smooth and slick to the touch, almost like glass. Not a lot of lubricant is necessary but both silicone and water-based lubes can be used if desired.

My measurements may also differ slightly from others. NobEssence guarantees their pieces to be within 1/8” of the stated measurement on smaller toys and within 1/4″ on larger ones so there is some variation. The Fling I received is about 7” long (measured straight from top to bottom – it’s about 8” when measured down the back curve). The Fling is 4” insertable (4 1/2″ along the back curve).

flinginhandfrontThe Fling has a wonderful design. The top bulb is more oval in shape than round and mine has a 5 3/8” circumference. It is 1 3/4″ in diameter measured across its widest point. The bulb is about 2” long and curved for g-spot stimulation. It tapers down into a thin neck before widening to the base.

The Fling should be treated with care. Although it is completely sealed with the Lubrosity coating, it shouldn’t be dropped on hard surfaces since this may damage the cellular structure of the wood. If you do drop it you can test the finish by dipping it in water for a few seconds and wiping it dry. If the impact point darkens when wet and remains damp, the Fling should no longer be used.

Cleaning the Fling is easy. It can be cleaned with antibacterial soap and water, toy cleaner, or a 10% bleach solution. It can be stored in its box for protection when not in use.

 flinginhandsideSo, Did It Work? The Fling is as useful as it is beautiful. I need very little lubricant to make this slick enough to use, and I don’t find it too large for easy insertion. For solo play I found that my fingers didn’t get tired while trying to grip a base (although my arm could and did sometimes get tired). The angle of the head and the length worked well for me for g-spot stimulation and I found it very easy to control.

For play with my husband this worked fantastically. My husband loved being able to slip his fingers through the base. He found that his hand didn’t cramp and he could hold it more loosely while still keeping control. Depending on the position I was in, he put his fingers either through the front or the back and found both comfortable.

While I didn’t use this for anal penetration, the shape looks like it would work well to stimulate the p-spot. Since the head isn’t tapered it may be difficult to insert without any preparation .

If you’d like to give the Fling a try (and I highly recommend it), you can pick one up at Shevibe by clicking the widget below.


Author’s note: This product was received for free as a “reward” for completing my 200th review and in exchange for portions of the review I wrote above. Portions of this review were previously published  on another website which was granted non-exclusive rights to the content.  I am reposting it here with some modifications. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

Vibrating Wood!

Recently I had the opportunity to try out a Treeze Realistic vibrator, courtesy of EdenFantasys.  I have to say, vibrating wood is fun!

Waterproof plastic vibrator with wooden sleeve.

This is another video review I did for EdenFantasys, and you can watch it and read the review here.


This product was provided to me free of charge by EdenFantasys in exchange for an unbiased review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.