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TMI Tuesday: Tough Decisions Ahead

1. Name 3 things that most excite your imagination when you imagine doing them? (I know TMI Tuesday blog is number one, so name three other things  ? ).
Hmmm…when I imagine masturbating tonight with my favorite vibrator and wand (that excites both me and my imagination, when I imagine finishing the novel I’m working on, and when I imagine going to Japan.

2. When sleeping with your significant other (yes, actually sleeping) do you like to cuddle up or do you prefer sleeping away from them nestled in your own blanket cocoon?
Honestly, I like sleeping away from them. I love to snuggle while I’m just drowsy and nodding off, but then I want to roll myself in blankets and sleep warmly.

3. Would you rather:
a. Drive 200 miles well over the legally drunk limit?
b. Drive 200 miles after being awake for 72 hours?
That’s a tough one. I think I’d rather drive a) over the legally drunk limit. I can’t imagine being awake for 72 hours, and when I’ve been up longer than I can handle I can fall asleep and not even know it, which seems more dangerous than being over the drunk limit.

4. Would you rather:
a. Be topless all the time
b. Pantless all the time
Definitely a.  Although, I’d rather not be topless in the winter, but it would be nice to be topless when the weather was good.

5. What is something you could talk about for hours?
There’s a lot of things I could talk about for hours. One thing is horror movies. I think I’ve seen more than anyone I know, and I love talking about them.

Bonus: What is something you could talk about for hours and not bore people to death?
Well, on occasion that could be horror movies, but I think talking about sex for hours wouldn’t bore people – it’s probably a much more arousing topic.


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Wicked Wednesday: Cemetery

By Olli Jalo (Photoclub Saimaan Kameraseura) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

I visit the cemetery every few weeks when the moon is full. I hate to go during the day, when so many people are about. At night, after hours, it’s peaceful, and I am alone.

I check carefully around me as I arrive, dressed in black with my hood up to blend in with the night. I look all around and listen, hearing nothing but the wind and the rustle of leaves. Slowly, I push the gate open until the chain stops it, and I slip into the crack to make my way to you.

The trails between the tombstones glow faintly in the cold light of the moon, and they guide my way to where you lie. I find your marker deep inside the cemetery, black marble and imposing. My fingers trace the letters of your name as a tear rolls down my cheek. You were taken from me much too soon, and sometimes I feel I can’t bear the loneliness any more.

I pull back my hood, letting my blonde hair glisten in the moonlight, then I slowly unzip my jacket, revealing my nakedness underneath. As I slip it off and let it fall to the ground, the moonlight makes my skin glow with an unearthly color.

My black shoes slip off easily, and then I undo the button on my jeans and unzip them, then slide them off of my pale hips before I step out, now completely naked. I kneel on the ground on top of your grave, staring at your tombstone and willing you to come to me.

I remember your hands upon me as my hands caress my breasts and pinch my nipples. They are hard, and yearning, and wishing for your touch. A small moan escapes my lips as I slide my hand across my belly and down between my legs. A jolt of electricity makes me shudder as my fingers find my clit and begin to tease it.

The earth is cool on my skin, and I lie back on the ground. Leaves crunch underneath my body as I spread my legs and offer myself to you. With my eyes closed, I imagine my hands are your hands, which have broken free from the earth and caress my willing flesh.  The wind is your breath sending shivers up my spine as my fingers thrust inside my wetness. I come quietly, intensely, and my body splays out on the earth as my breathing slows. I know I should dress and go, but I am reluctant to leave you.

I want you back so badly. I think if you ever do come back, it will be a night like this when the moon’s light shines down upon us and wraps us both in a cool embrace.


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Wicked Wednesday: Halloween

By Dèsirèe Tonus (halloween cake) [CC BY 2.0 ], via Wikimedia Commons

I think that Halloween is just the best time of the year,
When days are drawing shorter and the air is crystal clear.
The leaves are changing colors, falling quickly from the trees,
The ones still on the branches swaying gently in the breeze.

At night the ghouls and goblins head out onto the dark street,
With pillow cases handy into which to stuff their treats.
I’m much too old to trick or treat, but not for dressing up,
And go to parties, have some fun, and be not so grown-up.

Sometimes I dress up scary, as a monster from TV,
Be Pinhead, Freddy, Jason, or that thing from a movie.
But other times I dress up sexy, in a costume scant,
Sometimes a maid, or sexy witch with deadly spells to chant.

And at the party I would eat and drink throughout the night,
And dance and flirt with Dracula (which would be quite a sight)
And after we had eaten many Halloween hors d’oeuvres,
I’d have a drink of punch and watch him eyeing all my curves.

We’d find a bedroom open and disrobe of all our clothes,
And he would bite my neck and fuck me in the deep shadows,
We’d come together and I’d be a paler shade of white,
Lie sleepily and dream of more on this Halloween night.


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Wicked Wednesday: Purple

I love to wear purple, in all shades and hues. But I love to take it off for you even more.

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What About B.O.B.?

I have a pretty large collection of vibrators and dildos, most of which aren’t terribly realistic. I like realistic ones, particularly for dildos, and a suction cup is always a bonus! I’d been looking at a new brand called Pink B.O.B, and they were kind enough to send me the Ultra Real Suction Cup Dildo to try out for free, in exchange for an unbiased review.

Although B.O.B. does stand for what you think it does, they do make and sell a lot of non-battery operated toys. The dildo that I received came in a plain pink box with just the product name and some information on the back. Inside, it was sealed in plastic.

This is a nice looking dildo, and it’s a good size for me. It’s about 8” long overall, from the tip to the bottom of the suction cup, with 6” of insertable length, and it’s a nice 1.5” in diameter (4.75” circumference). It looks pretty realistic, and has a nice veined texture down the shaft as well as a well-defined head. The shaft is quite flexible, and I could bend it almost in half (it went right back to it’s normal shape when I let go). The dildo also has a curve, allowing it to hit your g-spot when thrusting.

The suction cup holds well on a flat, dry surface and really holds firm. It works on chairs, tables, shower walls – just about anything you can imagine that has a smooth texture. The suction cup is great for hands-free use, and it’s also great to hold on to while thrusting (holding onto the well-defined balls works as well). The cup also works well in my fucking machine and stays in place securely when it’s in motion.

The box doesn’t list the material, but the website says it’s 100% silicone. It is, indeed, odorless and flavorless, and it doesn’t have an oily feel. It feels soft and silky. The silicone is dual-layered, so it has the soft outer skin over a firmer but flexible inner.

You will want to use a good water-based lube when using this dildo, to make insertion and use easier. It’s easy to clean after play with soap and water or a toy cleaner.


Thank you to TooTimid for sending me this to review! I really like this dildo. It’s a great size, feels good, and is easy to use. If you’ve been looking for a realistic dildo that’s made of a body-safe material and has a suction cup to boot, you can pick one up at PinkBob.com, or at TooTimid by clicking the widget below.