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TMI Tuesday: Joy In Sex

1. What is the most annoying thing to you during foreplay or sex?
Hmmm…there are a lot of annoying things, but I think the most annoying is when it feels like they’re going through the motions and they’re not very into it. That tends to make me not very into it, which is never a good thing.

2. Tell us something you really wanted to do but let someone talk you out of when deep down you wanted to do it?
I think most recently going to DisneyWorld instead of Universal Studios. I think spending Christmas there would have been fun, and I should have stuck to my guns.

3. During sex are you more orgasm-centered or going for an all out enjoyable experience with connection?
It depends.  I love to have an enjoyable experience, and connect, but I also really love the release of having a few orgasms.

4. When was the last time you sought to introduce new activities in the bedroom? What did you want to introduce? Did you and your lover do the new sexual activity?
It’s been a while. Introducing all kinds of crazy toys was kind of routine (it helped that I was reviewing and getting some interesting stuff). Some bondage play was one of the biggest things I introduced, and we did that quite a bit.

5. Finish the sentence: I would enjoy spending an entire day alone watching porn and masturbating and being as loud as I wanted to be .

Bonus: If you had to sum up the internet in one word, what would it be?



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Wicked Wednesday: Someday


Circle of Hieronymus Bosch [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

So many times I think that I will never be happy,
Although I smile and make the face that everyone can see,
Beneath the surface turmoil stirs, I wonder will I be
Held tightly in your arms again?
Someday.  Someday.

Such agony and discontent behind this thin veneer
It covers up the suffering and masks my awful fear
That we have strayed too far apart and love will not appear.
Will you come and comfort me?
Someday.  Someday.

At night I cry myself to sleep, I want you so, so bad
I want to have the life again that long ago we had,
The tear stains on my pillow grow, and I am always sad,
Will you come back to me again?
Someday.  Someday.

I want to find the courage to break out of my dark cage,
And free myself from pain and anguish, and let loose my rage,
I want to make you understand what put me on this page,
Will you empathize with me?
Someday.  Someday.

And so I lead an empty life, I’m trapped inside this shell,
For one knows the husk I am, locked in this private hell,
I don’t know if you’ll hear my plea and free me, make me well,
Will you save me? Will you heal me?
Someday.   Someday.


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Wicked Wednesday: Lifestyle


Soft and supple,
Bound to please.
Wearing them is a lifestyle.


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Review: Cloud 9 Power Touch Bullet

It’s been a while since I added a new toy to my collection – but it’s definitely about time! I recently had the opportunity to try out the Power Touch Personal Wireless Bullet from the Cloud 9 Pro Sensual Series. It’s a bullet vibrator with remote control, and TooTimid sent this to me for free in exchange for an unbiased review.

The Power Touch comes in 3 colors: purple, pink, and teal, and I received mine in teal. It’s a bright, pretty color, and one of my favorites for a sex toy. This bullet and remote set comes with a USB charging cord, a small storage bag, and an instruction card. The storage bag is large enough to hold everything and keep it all together.

The bullet itself is decently sized at 4 1/2” long, and it’s insertable to 4”. It has a flared base which makes it easy to hold on to when you’re using it, and it’s made of silicone, so it’s body safe and phthalate free – a must for my toys. It’s easy to clean with antibacterial soap and some water, or a toy cleaner, both before and after use. The bullet is waterproof, so you can use it in the shower or tub, but the remote isn’t, so it should stay on dry land. The tip is rounded, making it easy to insert if you want to use it internally and also pleasant to use on your clit. A large power button is on the bottom of the base, and the charging port is located on the side.

A full charge takes about 4 hours, and the power button will blink while the bullet is charging. Once charged, the bullet will run for about 1 1/2 hours of use. This does charge more slowly than other rechargeables I’ve had, but I charge it after I use it so it’s ready to go the next time I’m ready.

The remote is small and made of plastic, giving it a shiny look. It has one button on the top, and the back has a removable panel where the battery is located. This remote uses a standard CR2032 watch battery. The range of operation is about 30 feet with no instructions, so you can give it to your partner to tease you from some distance away. Of course, it also works well for you to control the bullet!

The Power Touch is easy to operate, and can be used without the remote. Pressing the button on the bullet for 3 seconds turns the bullet on and makes it ready for use. The LED light behind the button will glow, letting you know its on. Then, press the power button once to start the vibrations, and press again to cycle through the patterns and levels. There are 3 steady vibration modes (low, medium, and high), and 7 pattern modes, and the LED light under the button glows and pulses to the mode. To stop the vibrations and turn off the vibrator without the remote, press and hold the power button for 3 seconds.

Using the remote is pretty straightforward. You’ll still press the bullet’s button for 3 seconds to turn it on, but then you’ll press the button on the remote to cycle through the modes. Pressing the remote’s button for 3 seconds again will stop the vibrations, and then you’ll need to press the bullet’s power button to turn its power off. If you don’t hold the button down for 3 seconds on the bullet, the vibrations will start up again.

The vibrations are nicely strong for a vibrator of this size, and they’re more throbby than buzzy. They feel great on your clit, and they feel good internally too. The bullet is pretty quiet – you can’t hear it if you’ve got the tv or some music on.

I like using this on the steady vibrations clitorally and turning on the patterns internally – my clit likes steady and strong vibrations, but I’ve found that the patterns in general feel better inside. While the vibrations aren’t the strongest I’ve ever felt, they’re certainly strong enough to do the job for me. The tip of the bullet is just the right size to hit and tease my clit, and I like using this bullet on my clit to start out, then internally, and then finish on the high setting so I can orgasm. I didn’t have any trouble with the bullet staying charged, and I like using this with the remote when I’m using it inside. I also like that this is travel safe, and it’s unlikely to turn on in my suitcase.

Thank you to TooTimid for sending me the Power Bullet to review! If you’d like to give this one a try, you can pick one up at TooTimid.com by clicking the link below.


Wicked Wedesday: Love

photo of a man and woman in bed.

By Jacob Appelbaum from san francisco, USA (Love in Wiesbaden) [CC BY-SA 2.0 ], via Wikimedia Commons

There is no way to truly share the love I feel for you,
And though I try to show you by the things I say and do,
I’m never sure you understand how deeply run my feelings,
How strongly you affect me, how your love creates my healings.

I love you from the bottom of my heart, my very soul,
And if you were to leave me I’d no longer feel whole.
Your essence does complete me and your love is in my mind,
I’d never want to turn away and leave that all behind.

I love to feel your arms around me hugging me so tight,
and feel your lips upon mine as we kiss throughout the night.
I love to feel you penetrate me with your cock,
My second orgasm runs through me like an aftershock.

I want to sleep securely nestled right up next to you,
To be at peace and happy with a love so strong and true.
I feel you with my body and I feel you with my mind,
Our love will outlast life and be forever intertwined.


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